i'm so lonely so i'm whining to youse about it

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"remember
you are the buddha
return to the source"

 

try making some digital mandalas using http://www.qbesq.com/ ...it is amazingly addictingly awsome!!!!

thanks again stalk!!

 

I used to get really lonely, but my entire life changed and I had to spend years being on my own. Yeah I worked and talked to people, but I just got used to being alone and embraced it.

know that you won't be lonely forever, you go through phases, it comes and goes.
ride it out, surfer.

 

thanks guys. and thanks stalk for the reassurance.....how did your life change to mean you were alone? you live alone still now?

i'm not used to it yet.....after 10 weeks im sure i will be though.

 

I'm just now getting used to all of this alone-crap.
Just had a 3 year relationship end, she was my best (and became my only) friend. We don't talk much now, so i'm just left feeling a bit crappy. I have a lot of older friends I can reach out to, just kinda tough right now.
So, while it is just me for the most part, I'll try to be okay with it.
I have a good bit of hobbies and work/school keeps me very busy. It's not too bad when you just fully utilize yourself and your abilities. It is nice in a way too.
... dot, ups and downs, but you'll be just fine.

Cheer up, Charlie.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=95P1P6t9dAw hehe

 

Hey Hushbull. Thats pretty much the same as me.....well, me and my boyfriend are still together but hes gone away for 3 months(ish) and like u with ur ex gf he is pretty much my only friend....or at least my only friend in 400 miles of my house....so i feel so lonely

but i will try and keep busy best i can and not think about it too much.

and thanks for the cheer up charlie video. made me laugh. *hugs to you*

 

library to some othe public place like a bar

 

i dont drink.........and i couldnt afford it anyway even if i did. pffft lonelyness sucks!!

 

My fiance of 4.5 years and I broke up a year ago, and I've been living alone for the first time since then... I still haven't gotten used to it.

At least your loneliness has an expiration date.

 

Alerys, your right. im glad it does too, dont know if i could get used to this as a permanant arrangement. how u getting on?

 

Spending time with yourself is important for growth, people who are never alone ,never get to know themselves..Take this time to find in yourself all the qualities you liked in the other person...And the next...and the next...Its really just a quick pause before the next one...

 

There's good days and bad days. I got my first tattoo a couple months ago to remind me of that. But as veiled1 so wisely noted, it truly is a good way to get to know yourself.

Some days I still get angry and/or depressed about it, but most of the time I'm actually pretty glad to have this opportunity. I feel like I can do absolutely anything at all, and for once in my life, it doesn't matter at all what anyone else thinks about it.

Ten weeks isn't really long at all when you think about it in those terms, so use your time wisely!

 

yeah i guess ur all right. thanks guys. its actually suprising how quick i have gotton used to it. i thort id be in a shit state but im pretty cool with it now, ok im eating crap ready meals and that but fuck it, its only 10 weeks and then i will get my chef back. lol. only problem is im skint and i dont get paid till end of the month !!! :|

 

smoke some herrrrrrrb

 

im debating whether to do that in the stoners lounge right now subliminal! i miss tokiiin

 

Do you go outside?

 

I'm having thst problem too

I like it better when I don't feel lonely

when I just feel like daydreaming

 

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I don't mind being alone most of the time. People can really get on your nerves and then you have to be polite when you don't feel like it. It's sort of like they say when you are grandparents; you love them but, at the end of the day, they go home and you can rest.