I need help on g-spot orgasm?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by pikushi, Oct 2, 2008.

  1. pikushi

    pikushi Guest

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    I am 17 years old, and have been sexually active for a very long time and my boyfriend of about 8 months..we have the greatest sex I've ever had or can imagine
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    I am very confused, I find myself searching up how to have an orgasm all the time. Yes, I have had a clitoral orgasm hundreds of times by myself and with my boyfriend stimulating me/oral sex/me on top having sex/him on top--rubbing against me.

    I am very very interested in having female ejaculation (or squirting) or just COMING a real come would be very nice.. I've tried to stick my 2 fingers in and stimulate some area? but nothing ever feels that good to me. It only feels extra good when my boyfriend has intercourse with me or uses our small vibrator in-and-up my vagina (which I guess would be my gspot?) because it drives me crazy when we do it doggie style and he puts his legs on the outside of mine and goes downwards so it rubs the front of my vaginal wall or when he puts my legs above his shoulders and it's rubbing against my front wall

    anyways he says he would love it if I squirted, and I sometimes tell him he probably needs to stimulate me more. I know you feel like you're going to pee when it's suppose to come out. And I have felt that once when I was on top of him going at it really hard
    I just want some help. And has anyone else had trouble trying to orgasm this way? I just want some advice and help from people that think they don't have a g spot haha
    I have also read every girl can have a g spot orgasm it just takes time/patience/practice

    ahh help

    thanks
     
  2. SloJoe

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    This squirting thing seems to be hit-and-miss, and your boyfriend is probably putting pressure on you to "perform" in ways your body simply can't. I've had more sex partners than I care to admit, and only one woman got more that "just a little wet" and not one did anything that I'd call squirting.

    The G-spot orgasm is another subject. There's a slightly rough spot about two inches inside the vagina on the front wall, and tickling that space will send tremors through many women. Like all sexual pleasure, the man needs to pay attention to her responses, though, and not assume that more (or hard) is better. Find it, tease it, and take your time. Rythem is everything.
     
  3. wizzard

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    Don't worry about it, it's one of those things that is a little different for everybody. It sounds like y'all are having a lot of fun already, so don't stress over it; try stuff out to get it, and if it doesn't work, you still probably had some great sex so that's no loss.

    G-spot stimulation seems to be the most important thing for squirting from what I've heard, but there's also the idea that vaginal orgasm is really a "full-body" orgasm, and that you should treat it as such. So maybe ask him to give you a slow, thorough, relaxing massage on all of your body. There are some video guides I've seen about good full body massages, you look for that. This hopefully should relax all of your muscles and get you really excited. The massage can then progress into genital play; if he could bring you to clitoral orgasm once before you try to get a vaginal orgasm it might be easier. Then try g-spot stimulating sex.

    And make sure you piss before sex, so you'll be less worried if you start feeling that sensation.
     

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