how normal am I?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by poptart1985, Oct 6, 2008.

  1. poptart1985

    poptart1985 Member

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    Hey,

    here is my situation: I am actually away from my girlfriend, its been 1 month, and 1 more to go (my god is this hard!!!!) I trust her alot, and im not the jalous type. But last saturday she was out with a bunch of her friends and the roomate of her friend was hitting on her. even if he knew she has a boyfriend. he even invited her to sleep at his place that night. (she decline the invitation, lol) She was really feeling bad about it because she didnt want me to think there was something going on between them. but now he calls her everyday, text her, etc, etc and im starting to feel really hangry about it. I cant do anything right now because I'm so far. I still trust her and she says its anoiyng her as well.

    I dont know what to do really. I dont know the guy, but what an asshole to hit on a girl who has a boyfriend far away, I would never do something like that to anyone because it suq.

    has anyone been in this situation before?

    sorry my english, not my first language :p
     
  2. opel diamond

    opel diamond burn out

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    that sucks. and i feel for you. my boyfriend is away from me for 10 weeks too and emotions are lot worse when your far and cant do anything and miss someone too. but its good you trust your girlfriend like you do. This guy is an asshole and its a cheap shot to hit on someone with a boyfriend, especially when hes not around, but dont worry about it. Ive had it happen to me when my boyfriends been away and we have discussed it together, as long as u trust each other dont let it become a problem. if your meant to be she wont be looking for anyone else anyway. :)

    hope it all works out well.

    by the way your english was very good. :)
     
  3. deram_scholzara

    deram_scholzara Member

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    Yeah, I've been in that situation. I found the guy's AIM screenname and pretended I was a random hot girl - even showed him fake pictures and spoke dirty with him. Then, when he was totally distracted from my then-girlfriend, I told him that in order to meet me, he'd have to tell all the girls, even the ones he was just interested in, that he was gay.

    He never told her, but he also stopped hitting on her, so it worked out :)
     
  4. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    I agree your english is fine.

    I think you have nothing to worry about. He is just a prick and your girlfriend obviously loves you. Its hard but when you are with the person it will be so worth the wait. Well I think everything will be just fine.


    Tiffany
     
  5. poptart1985

    poptart1985 Member

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    thank everyone,

    I am not stressed or anything, I just dont feel right inside because of that asshole. I know I will see my girlfriend in 3 weeks and I cant wait for that moment to arrive. Until then I know i can trust her and I know she loves and I love her as well. But that guy, I hope ill never see him ever, if so, ill show him how uncool it is to hit on someones girlfriend, huh!
     

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