Holy shit this sounds so much like me for I am born on October 10th, I am creative, critical, shy only around stangers but crazy funny with my close friends, and also put myself (looks wise) down . And the whole thing with relationships is identical I will realy like the person very much but once they show any interest in me I freeze up and fuck it up in some way.! It's good to see that there are more people out there like myself. Yayyyy!!
3rd here... yeah i'm a lot like you people... shy only with people i dont know, and a total tard around people im comfortable with quite creative.. love art .. mostly drawing, and music.. very indecisive.. i always look at both sides of an argument.. i hate when people stare at me too... i used to just look away before and ignore them.. but now im the dominant one and i just stare back at them until they get uncomfortable and look away. lol i'm am pretty selfish sometimes too.. lol .. and i didn't have my future planned until just recently.. but its brilliant. .. and i'm a perfectionist..
im a libra too, september 27th 1991 :] a lot of these traits i can really relate to but others i cannot, like the shy thing, i cant say im actually shy because im constantly socializing with people i know and then often losing my attention and moving on to people i dont know. i make a lot of friends and seem to attract people often which i enjoy one big thing about me is that im very nice and kind and selfless all the time, very empathetic of others' feelings and i always seem to be the peacemaker (hate arguments, yelling, tension, anger, it all makes me feel very highly uncomfortable so i by reaction step in to fix it usually) but when i read that libras are resentful people, this shocked me most, because i get very very resentful usually when family/friends go out and do stuff because they have plans of their own or anywhere im not included i always think its fine i'll let them do whatever they want, but then consciously i find myself acting very snappy and moody just as quick as i was to be the peacemaker i soon find im bringing everything to ruin.. i think i subconsciously harbor negative feelings sometimes if i get too resentful but libra is supposed to be all about balance and its times like these when i feel very unbalanced, which makes me unhappy because i DO love balance in my life! is it regular of libra to sometimes not be a very balanced person at all? like how in the way i am very people pleasing but only as long as i can keep loyalty? and why do my emotions develop subconsciously instead of somewhere in my brain where i can notice them beforehand? does any other libra have this issue? i know i may sound a little crazy lol and i promise i am but in a good way
Libras tend to reflect their surroundings, this is a very deeply ingrained subconscious process. Negative social circumstances can throw them off balance, which can be a very disconcerting experience for the more sensitive Libras. It is very important for them to keep good company because of this!
Amen to that! I just realized this being a sensitive Libra(October 15) and have recently re-evaluated the people I hang out with because they were throwing my balance way off and it was making me miserable.
this completely makes sense. i do reflect my surroundings and i tend to reflect the personalities of who im talking to and now that you mention it, it does always seem to put me subconsciously into a positive state if im being influenced positively or a negative state if im being influenced negatively! but i guess it kinda sucks when i think about it, being so easily thrown off balance by social interactions.. sometimes i really like to be independent and down to business because it makes me feel good to be practical, but even in that state i cant help the subconscious issues which arise with rippling my social life.. why oh why must libras be so socially conscious
oct.12 here...i too crave peace and balance, disorder upsets me,rational,intutive,way too indecisive,empathetic,overindulgent,art beauty, narcissistic, emotional...ahh libra
Libras of the world please help. I'm stuck with this indecisive libra girl who acts like the way you've all told before. We talk and webcam, she even gave me her number but I've asked her out twice and rejected (well in the form of an excuse). Now that I'm away for holiday for a few days she texts, msn etc said we can meet after I return, but dunno how much she means it. How do you normally get a libra to say yes ? By giving it time chatting for he moment etc or playing it more hard like eg being less available ?
yay , good for sure sign libra, i mean only women. indecisive? i don't think like that. maybe because my moon sign is leo. normally i'm indecisive, but when situation goes danger i'm decisive
is libra carefully choosing their partner? perfectionist.. because i'm kinda like that. and my sister too.