The Best Blowjob

I've had many guys tell me I've given "the best BJ they've ever had" but I really don't take them seriously. Guys will say anything to get more BJ's if at all possible, haha.

Men are fairly easy to please. A good BJ is a good BJ. Just ask him what else you can try to do differently, if anything at all. If he's so honest with you that is going to be your best bet. No one on this forum can tell you what made the "other" girl better than you.

 

It sounds like he's "treating you mean to keep you keen"

Or he's just a cnut.

You don't say that sort of crap to a girl. You try to "improve" things gradually, by making encouraging comments, or constructive criticism.

I'd dump him, if I were a girl.

PS. Out of curiosity, did he give you any advice as to why you were only number 2 on the list?

 

no trust me he's not a ****, and I'm not gonna just dump him because of that one thing, I asked him where I ranked with him, and for him to be honest with me, I don't see how that's him being mean to me, I honestly didn't even expect for him to say I was #1 I was just curious???

I don't know maybe some of you a little too sensitive when it comes to this subject, or looking into this a bit too much, because I was talking with my friends about this and i defiantly didn't get this reaction, lol, they just asked me what I already did with him and gave me some advice like some of you people on here did, and I just came here to get some other opinions, but you all have the rights to your own opinions

 

Eat his ass.

 

Second vote for eating his ass. Best feeling- then lick your finger, insert it and press forward- he will cum like crazy

 

No, we are the NORMAL people, who don't tell our girlfriends they're second best at anything, because it's not very nice and creates animosity. Imagine if I'm dating a girl, "Aww, you're so sweet, I'd say you're the second sweetest girl I've dated, right behind Jane." "Awww, you make the best pancakes, well besides Amy, so you're second." "Wow you look so sexy in that bra, probably the second best boobs of any girl I've dated, right behind Laura." Can you see why this is a VERY VERY bad idea?!?! It's not cool to compare your current girl IN ANY WAY to your exes. Ever. It's low class. Exes are in the past and should remain that way.

 

Yea no, I tell my fiance the truth no matter what. I just don't do it in a way like your boyfriend did. When she asked how she compared to others, instead of saying "I've had better", I told her that it's all in the past and the only thing that matters is her and how we please each other. And it's the truth; none of my ex's matter and nor do they compare to her. She's honestly the best lover/friend that I could ask for. I didn't save face and I didn't make her go on a forum to ask a question because I told her she was #2.

 

If you have a vibrator, set it on low and put it gently against his balls just as he's about to cum..
Between the balls from the bottom works like a nuclear bomb going off for me..
But very gently.. and keep it pressing lightly against his balls after he cums.
My gf of 6 years did this to me right out of nowhere while giving me head at the beginning of our relationship.. Just grabbed her vibro and ... the rest - as they say - is history.
It made my orgasm much more intense than it usually was from oral sex.
She doesn't do it every time of course (That would spoil it) but once in a while.. mmmmm..

 

Each guy is different, the only way for me to advise you how to suck his cock best is to do it a few times and figure out how he likes it. So many guys have a really hard time cumming from just a blow job, specialy if they are alcoholics.
It is up to the guy to coach you on how best to give him head.

 

no its not a very bad idea I asked him and he told me and there is no bad animosity between us at all, and I'm a NORMAL person too, its not like i was just sucking him and he just blurted out I was 2nd best

@ dj2, that's good that its like that with you and your girl, but my boyfriend didn't made me come on here, i just wanted to come here to get some ideas, just like lots of other people do when they come these sections of the forum, but they just don't always make post about it

to the people that have given me ideas thank you, and to the other people that has came here to give me their opinions on the situation you have your right to your opinions, and thats all

 

im GLAD he told her shes second best. i WANT a guy to be honest with me. whats the point of lying!? if i can do something different, i will. I think its good hes honest with you hun.

what you want to do is go slow at first, really enjoy his penis, rub over it with your tongue and kiss it softly with your lips, letting it slide between them. lick up and down his shaft. suddenly take him all in (as far as u can go) and do a couple fast strokes then go back to the teasing and slow softness. take your time with the blowjob! the move all guys love is swallowing them, bobbing your head up and down and at the SAME TIME roll your tongue around his head and up and down the shaft. its really tricky, but practise makes perfect and i bet he would love it.

you should also tell him you want him to cum deep in your throat or on your tongue or boobs, etc. wherever YOU are comfortable with him cumming. you telling him you want it somewhere will really turn him on.

good luck. pm me if u need any more advice

 

Now this is a most useful post! I have to say that I deeply respect any girl that both has a ganja leaf in her signature and gives explicit instructions on how to give a blowjob! MaryJane, if all the girls in the world had these qualities, there would be no wars. What would a man rather be doing, getting high and having his dick sucked by a girl that knows how to do it, or kill a bunch of people he has never met?

 

I'd have to agree with you there. make sweet, sweet loooooooooove not war.

 

what a paragraph