Any tips on how to Cum

My B/f and I are very sexually active. I can take care of his needs easily, but i have never came during sex, and it takes about 45 minutes for me to cum orally, which if you can imagine isn't very nice for him....

And tips, hints?

p.s. tried a vibrator during sex to stimulate.... not my cup of chai, plus it's hard to juggle while moving around lol.

 

i wish i could give you some advice, but unfortunately i've got pretty much exactly the same problem, so i know exactly how you feel, and it sucksssssss

 

Just get on top and ride him. My last lady friend pretty much allways got off quite easily that way.

Have him try the coital alignment technique. He slides forward and curls his pelvis forward which will continously rub on your clit while he enters.

 

Rub your clit while he's inside you. It'll get you in the groove and might make it easier to come without rubbing later. The more you come, the more you'll be able to come, even if you have to get yourself over the edge with your fingers for a while.

 

My girl rubs herself to orgasm most of the time when we're fucking. I love it, I love to watch her do it. Sometimes she can come without rubbing herself, but most of the time she can't. It's all good-just do whatever it takes. I agree with Charise, that the more you orgasm, the easier it will come later. Just rub it, baby.

And yes, getting on top could help, too. Grind your clit against his pubic bone and see what happens-it can't be anything but good feelings!

 

while he's down on you, make sure he knows where the clit is, and that he stays around it. Then he can use a finger to find and 'activate' the g spot. If you'll let him, since he has another hand left, ask him to go for your anus - around, in & out, or in with effect. Sex is not for kids. It takes a goodly amount of stimulation, understanding and love. Lots of cuddling before AND after. See if he'll forget his own orgasm for a couple of weeks so he can concentrate on yours. He can always jo after. Men tend to think of themselves.

 

try introducing a penis ring to the equation you can get a vibrating one that arouses both you and him I used one on a girl who couldnt orgasm for shit needless to say she went mad for it everytime as it got her off in like 10 mins!!