this is particularly aimed at the females but males can answer too!!! i can always get myself off when i'm alone, but whenever i'm with company, i sometimes feel like i have to "force" myself to get into that zone...does anyone else feel this way too?? and when you DO "force" yourself (rubbing yourself, fingering etc...) do you end up getting aroused in the end or not to the point where you just think "i'm not aroused, but eff it...might aswell have sex and get it over with"... does anyone else feel this way too sometimes??
I have to "force" my boyfriend into it sometimes... He seems to be fine on his own though... I don't think there's a time when I've ever had to force myself into it though, personally.
I'm pretty sure he was directing the question to the girlfriend raping statement... And yeah, cept when you force yourself to get aroused I find your dick is not very big compared to when you are truly aroused. . . Maybe your boyfriend is fine by himself because he fears being judged by you and fears he won't satisfy you when he's not fully and truly erect. But when he's by himself it doesn't matter how big it is.