Loners--

Are you a loner or did you used to be?

 

I'm not, but i would like to be... Just to take a rest for a while

 

i have been for some time and im sick of it

 

Nope and nope.

 

I tend to keep to myself. And I never fully open up to people. Not even the ones I'm closest to.

 

hmm no im not
i have my moments when i cant be bothered with people and just wanna be alone. but the loner persona isnt me.

 

I'm quite sociable and friendly, but i dont have many friends. I tend to lean towards the loner side cos i like keeping things to myself rather than being around lots of people...so far i havent been really lucky and met a few people who didnt really deserve my friendship so i kind of distanced myself from others. i'm contracdicting myself i know! i'm approachable but i'd rather be alone and do my own thing sometimes.

 

i used ot be, then i was super cool...and now i try to be a loner, but people just odn't leave me alone.

 

What you've written pretty much describes how I am. I have only a few friends but they are good friends whom, apart from one, have known me over a decade. When I was a teenager I tried to fit in with the so called "in crowd" and it never worked. It used to really bother me but now I'm so glad I didn't fit in and become a clone. After all the shit I've taken from people in the past I've reached a stage in my life where I can take people or leave them. I like being my own person and for the first time I'm starting to accept myself for who I am and consider myself to be a good person.

As far as friends goes, it's not the quantity but the QUALITY! I'd rather have 1 good friend say who brings me joy and happiness (I know happiness has to come from within also), than 10 so called friends who make my life a misery.

 

i have friends and everything but i never fully open up and i kinda feel alone most of the time

 

I am definitely what you would call a "loner". That's not to say I don't socialize -- I do. I simply prefer being alone to being in the company of other people. I guess I just have a really hard time relating to most people. I've also always felt uncomfortable around large groups of people. And really, I find most people to be pretty boring anyway. It's rare that I meet a person who has the same likes and the same philosophies as I do, let alone is worth having a simple conversation with.

I tend to be a deep-thinker, and I feel more content in my own little world inside my head, as opposed to being around a bunch of people I really don't care for.

 

I kinda am, except I'm not. I have had alot of problems, but now that I've been over things, I still don't have alot of friends. It's like, it just does'nt happen.

 

I used to be LONER im still loner at hart. Im pretty popular at school go to partys alot, I still pass up people and will be in a group of people and walk away sometimes just because I dont really like people and some piss me off. Same with partys. Im not all depressed or anything I just rather not be around people some times. I think im slowly goin out of this "stage" in my life.

 

I tend to keep to myself too, I don't mind hanging out with a lot of people but I don't make a huge effort to

 

I am a lonesome cowboy, I am.

 

i have never been a loner, but i have always felt alone. does that make any sense?

 

Yes, that is a well-known cliché.

 

I'm a loner and everyone's friend at the same time... which makes me a loner.

 

im a loner. always been, always will be. but i dont mind it.

 

Rather than "loner" I prefer to think of myself as a "by myselfer".