loosing erection during sex..

??? does this ever happen to you? this used to happen occasionally with a bf although he would get erection again,, but it was a lil frustrating when it happened. is this rare/? it just seems strange! .. i dont think it was me.. myb just too much sex!??

 

Well it happened to me my first time. I was nervous and didn't enjoy it so I lost it just right after I got in. That's how it ended. My second time was a bit similar though with less anxiety so it worked.

Be tender with the guy and make him feel like you want him too

 

umm.. the sex we had was actually really great .. which is why i wondered .. im sure it wasnt anything to do with nerves, he's had too much practice for that!!

 

It's happened to me a couple times, as a result of too much sex/masturbation. He'll recover and everything will be fine...

 

it happens to my bf sometimes too, its really annoying too! could it mean im not turning him on enough?

 

The main thing is, this is one of those things that just happens. It's not anything you're doing wrong particularly, it could be anything. Sometimes I think it just gets tired.

Do you now see the appeal of tag-teaming though? At least then you have a stand-in.

 

I have had that problem sporadically through out my sex life. Sometimes when I start to put on a condom, I will start to lose my erection, and then have to use a little stimulation to get it back up all the way. I never really get all the way hard until after penetration and stroking in and out a few times. My girl friend likes to ride me sometimes in a way that makes her come very easily, and it doesn't stimulate me much, so every coulple of minutes I have to kind slip my cok in and out a few times for some extra stimulation. I don't think losing it a little sometimes is a problem or an indicator of one, as long as you can control yourself you should be fine.

 

happens to me when im on too many drugs (perscription or otherwise)

try again

 

yea that did happen once when he put a condom on .. we never usually used them.. as dont like the feel. .. um he did used to take a l,ot of drugs n he takes a lil coke here n ther.. but i dont think that wouldv made a difference.. well im not really so worried anyway.. was just curious if it was common. thankya

 

its been happeing to me a lot recently. its a combination of nerves, having to be the agressor, lack of stimulation from the condom and a number of other factors. i find under the covers or with the lights out generally fixes the problem for me..despite the fact i feel completley comfortable being naked
its probably not you not turning him on enough.
personally i can get incredibly horny without achieving a hard on and recieve almost as much pleasure when someone is playing with me limp as they are playing with me hard.
its sorta like with girls...some girls are incredibly difficult to get wet...some guys are incredibly difficult to get hard.

 

yea myb.. tho he never has trouble gettin hard in the first place.. it was usually just during sex when he'd go a lil limp n then wait for rise again.. hah.. yea.. prehaps it was tiredness or something.. umm .. it would be easy to start thinking tho that it was loss of desire..

 

yea, its the same with me, i have no toruble getting hard to begin with, but as soon as the forplay stops and the seriousness begins i have trouble keeping it up. i just try to laugh it off. how long have you been going out with the guy?

 

well were kindv longdistance lovers now anyway.. n so its unlikely we get bored, it only happened a couple of times last time we met.. just got thinkin a lil about it.. wonderin ya kno.. it seemed unusual between us so...

u still feel aroused tho when u loose it? .. its just seems more obvious when it happens to a guy

 

yep, incredibly aroused still....if your long distance then the problem would preformance anxiety...for me as soon as i start thinking i have to keep the erection going so she knows i liek her, i start to loose it.

 

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haha whiskey dick can be the most frusterating thing in the world

 

well it has happened to my fiance the last time we "tried" to have sex he felt akward and totally turned off due to the fact of my little belly and he was thinking all these crazy thoughts of the baby inside me like what if i hurt it and bla bla bla.

 

only happened once cause i was a little annoyed doing the same thing over and over again. couldn't even go down on her. didn't finger this girl until well after dating her for a year. sad...

 

I guess this isn't the time to bring up that the 45 year old sex partner of mine has no problems keeping it up. If he's tired, then he just stays erect after he orgasms, and can actually orgasm a second time if we're going at it at a nice relaxing pace. I tend to have a monster orgasm too, btw...