Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, I know of a guy who created an organization for men into male feet. Actually he helped me to get a better understanding of my own fetish desires, even though it involves women. There are even women into other woman's feet. The question that remains in my mind are there women who have a fetish for male feet????? Never heard of any cases where that is true.
Yes, there are. I have "met" women online who have claimed to be into men's feet, and they certainly took an interest in mine. I have even spoken to one via telephone where she described things she wanted to do with my feet, and we set up a date. I went so far as to drive over to where she lived, but chickened out (I knew nothing else about her) and never went through with it, so I will never know. But other women that I have just associated with online have also been interested enough in men's feet to have it be considered a fetish.
A man that is sexually aroused by barefoot women or by female feet is considered a freak, a fetishist. However, can anyone say that he has a fetish for female breasts or buttocks? No! That's considered "normal", not a fetish. I like all the parts of a girl and ALSO her feet, a barefoot girl looks atractive, sensual to me. However I cannot confess this in public or everyone would think I am a freak, a pervert. If you are sexually aroused by having your feet touched could be considered a fetish, but I am sure that's not the only way to arouse you but one more, so this makes you special and gifted, as you can get pleasure where other women cannot. Maybe, and just maybe, that's a reason why you are a 24/7 barefooter, not only because of comfort, but because of sensuality, because you enjoy feeling the textures and that sensual massage your soles receive. Please don't take this bad, it's just an opinion. Don't feel ashamed of wanting to have your feet touched, enjoy and have your hubby enjoy them too! Regards DG dg_2001x@yahoo.com
i just wanted to add my 2 cents to the discussion. i have always been a barefooter and have always found feet attractive. i think as a barefooters we enjoy the various sensations we feel under our feet and the look of the bare foot. to me a fetish, means this is solely (pardon the pun) how one's achieves his/her sexual arousal. enjoy the feet and do whatever makes you and your partner happy.
A very interesting, intelligent opinion. I agree with you. "Foot fetishism" is far more common that we'd believe, however no-one openly talks about it! We all are ashamed to confess we find female feet and a barefoot girl specially attractive. If we were more open, I am sure that girls actually would walk barefoot outdoors more often and on purpose, once they'd realize that it's just another way to appeal the other sex and to look sexier. Regards DG
was this why you were asking me so many questions about going barefoot and asking me to describe and send pictures of my feet? i don't mind that really, but i would have preferred it if you had been upfront with me about the fact that you wanted to get that information and pictures because it was sexually appealing to you. honesty is the best policy where i'm concerned - i won't judge people for what they are into, but i do like to be told the truth.
angel_wings: Please accept my apologies, it was not my intention to offend or bother you. It's just that a barefooter girl is like a gem and, alas!, there are not true barefooter girls here where I live... if you see a girl walking barefoot in the street it's mostly because she's so poor that cannot afford shoes, not by choice. Regards DG2001
I've avoided this thread for a long time, but to be honest, a woman willing to go barefoot in public is more attractive to me than one who is too mentally weak to not be able to stand being different. There's also something kind of aesthetically pleasing about it, unless the chick has bunions or something. I'm not sick about it or anything, though, like some people I've encountered on line. (Not many in particular on this forum, and definitely no regulars; you guys are quite honest people). What creeps me out is when people ask honest barefooting questions online, and then just to get some free porno, somebody comes in and says "Hey, send pictures of your feet to (email address)! It'll help your confidence! Bullshit. These people give us a bad name. That's part of why I refuse to post in the pictures thread... everyone knows there have to be some lurkers around the net that settle here for a stream of pictures. Kind of gives me the shivers. I only want my walkin' stubs to be viewed from about 5 or so feet above. I guess that's just the conservative part of me talking. What a walking contradiction I am sometimes...
Don't know where the line falls between fetish and preference. I didn't really think much about going barefoot until I dated a guy who liked it when I went that way. Sure it was kind of a "turn on" for him but he wasn't weird or obsessive about it or anything. Some guys liked when I wore heels, he liked it when I went barefoot. I didn't see it as anything more than how some guys prefer blonds. He was a little shy in telling me about it b/c he was afraid I think he was odd. In fact it took a couple glasses of wine to get it out of him. One time on a break from school I stayed with him for a few days and he thought it was cute that I didn't bring any shoes with me so we both got something out of it. At the time I think that was the longest I've gone w/o shoes. The only thing kind of odd was that he was very reluctant to go anywhere barefoot himself. After a little prodding I got him to leave his shoes and socks and walk with me to the park every now and then. I don't think he was afraid of others seeing him but that he wasn't used to going barefoot and I think it made him feel a little vulnerable.
Some interesting points there. I take no prodding at all to go bf, whereas my girlfriend would never dream of it. But she has no problem with me being bf. My only worry is that we are giving mixed messages to our daughter, who clearly likes to be bf. My girlfriend is always telling her to put some shoes on whereas I of course let her decide whether she wears shoes or not. Another point raised is that contrary to popular female belief, a lot of men are left cold by seeing a woman in high heels. To me they look ridiculous, dangerous and rather tarty. But in all I would never try to influence anyone over what if any footwear they wear. It's a matter of personal choice.
Interesting. I've often found this being the case in regarding to male foot fetishists, including myself. Nevertheless, it is no longer the case for me as now I am very comfortable with going barefoot in public.
It's not the feet themselves I like so much as their nakedness. Does that make sense? When I see a girl going shoeless, she looks less constrained, more relaxed, friendlier, and ideally, more willing to have sex. (By now, I've learned not to put too much stock in the last of these impressions.) If she's wearing shorts or a skirt, her bare feet make her legs look longer.
ive always understood it that for something to actually be a "fetish", it has to be something that the person finds it difficult or impossible to become sexually aroused without it. people misues the word fetish to describe things which are turn-ons, preferences or just kinks. for someone to actually have a "foot fetish" they would need to be in such a state as only things to do with shoes or feet could arouse them sexually - no other aspect of sexuality would have any meaning to them. so if ur boyfriend liked your feet, liked doing stuff involving your feet, but was also into you sexually in other ways, its not really a fetish, just an aspect of his sexual identity - part of a whole load of things that turned him on. i kind of wonder if feet are part of the secondary sexual characteristics a lot of people respond to... secondary sexual characteristics are the things which arent genitalia but are still different on men and women (breasts, buttocks, body shape and proportion, height, fat distribution), the things we respond to in a partner. if you think about it, mens and womens feet look different and a guy liking a girls "cute feet" is really not much different, biologically, from liking her "cute butt"... its a long way from the realms of "fetish"
Weirdly enough, some fetishists like to make a whole scene out of the fetish, starting from pulling off the shoes and socks slowly. So a lot of fetishists won't think about going around barefoot or even in sandals.
As a guy, I can say I like ALL of the parts. There is something about a barefoot woman that gets the attention of some guys. Others are chest or heels guys. I personally do not get that, but I guess we come in all flavors. A fetish would have to stand alone as an object. I would bet that for many here, this is one of the many pieces that make the picture complete. A baring of the sole you could say.
I go barefoot as much as I can, cuz it's cool and my boyfriend gets turned on big time. We spoke about it and he definetly has a fetish, I guess . The fact is that we love each other and to me it's the same as if he was getting horney for a miniskirt or a pierced belly button..! He likes me barefoot and possibly with a long hippie dress or jeans, so I do it and we just enjoy each other!
