His time is getting shorter

I have no idea where this would go, first I thought genitalia, then sexual health, and I gave up trying to decide and settled for general. Anyway,

Me and my current lover have had sex.. 10+ times since we started a month and a half ago. The first time, he lasted 3 hours. The next, 2 1/2 and the time kept decreasing. It seems to me that the more we have sex, the shorter he lasts.

He doesn't masturbate, he said he just doesn't enjoy it. From my knowledge of the male penis and getting off, the more often he does the longer he is supposed to last.

I have tried talking to him about it and he just says stress, but the last time was less then 10 minutes for Christ's sake. I have never insulted his abilities, he is one of the best lovers I have had.

Does anyone know what is up? Preferably someone with a penis who has experienced this kind of thing?

Thank you =]

 

Umm masturbating can play a big part in weather or not a guy lasts. It is actually good for a guy to masturbate.


Tiffany

 

I've talked to him about it and he said he just cannot get off from masturbation alone. We try to have sex at least every other day, no more than a week in between (during my period). So it's not like he is going for long periods in between. The day he lasted less than 10 minutes we had had sex just the day before =/

 

does he take any medication?

did you have sex in the morning?

 

I can never get aroused around women even tho i'm totally hetero

 

WTF ????

 

well it's probbly cause he doesn't jack off, if he doesn't like it why dont you offer to do it for him and then the sex will last longer.

 

its because he's become use to u and relaxed allowing for a quick orgaism <-(am i spelling that right)
at first he may have been nervous and it was able to hold out longer. no since the two of u are more relaxed its probably easier for the two of u to get off.
solutions:
get a rubber band and tie it around his dick so it wont cum lol
u get on top and control the speed and force.
beat him senseless and rape him (chose this one):smash:
have u tried role playing its fun and make the experience last a little longer
grab his nuts and lift my gf does it to me and i cant cum for some reason i think it pinches the vain or tube that the cum goes through

 

I've noticed that with alot of men, I think it's a comfort thing.

 

brain damage- he said he can't get off if he is the only one getting anything (his words). He said the only part he enjoys about sex is knowing the other person enjoys it, which is why he can't get off from masturbation.

new guy- the first one sounds dangerous, we change, or did change, positions frequently during sex so I was on top quite a lot, the third is pretty much how we always have sex, and neither of us have ever really gotten into role playing.

Is there anyway I can make him less comfortable around me?

 

Tell him he isnt satisfying u

 

have you noticed your moods during the different times? are you more into it? you mentioned that he's going off of you quite a bit take a look at what's different with you each time. I tend to be the opposite with a new woman it takes me a bit to get the togetherness vibe maybe he's just doing the same thing although you've been together for long enough you'd think you'd have each other's vibe by now....

try having more sex maybe. and yeah if he can't get off on his own there's probably something going on with him. talk to him about it. get him to go down on you more. there's no reason you can't still have lots of fun even if he's blowing too soon. get him to get you off before you have sex more. hell he can pull out during the middle and eat you some more... no reason you can't mix it up.

 

3 hours? Really?

I don't usually time myself but I'd be DEAD if I fucked for 3 hours. It's not even about being able to hold back the cum. I usually get physically worn out well before then. Granted I'm not in great shape, but he must be an Olympic fucking athelete to go for 3 hours.

 

jrnyman -He does go down on me. I just prefer sex so much more, it's a lot more enjoyable for me. I love fucking. Foreplay is fun, but that's all it is to me, no matter how much there is. I am rarely satisfied from foreplay alone, I haven't been for quite a while.

rigamarole - Haha, he is in pretty good shape. He works out a lot. He probably could be an olympic athlete if he wanted to be, but I doubt he does. Not many 16 year olds have that as a life dream.

 

He's only 16 ? Well theres your issue. I bet he was so fucking nervous the first time that he couldn't get off.

 

It could also be that he cares aboutyou more now, so there seems to be more pressure on him to perform. Why don't you try it a couple of times in a row? The last always seems to keep going.