My boyfriend and I want to have a threesome....

But with what we both want out of it I think it would be hard to find someone. For example, he wants a 3some w/ another girl, and i would prefer w/ another guy. I would be ok with having one w/ a girl, but I would have (what may sound odd to you) some strange expectations. Such as I would never want to see the girl again, or rather, never have him see her again. But, IMO, I dont see how thats possible. To find a (hot) girl willing to have a threesome with us that we could trust not to have anything (stds) and that we would never see again.

Am I reaching too high here?

Be honest

 

Yeah, you really are. In my opinion, you are in no way ready for a 3sum with expectations like that.

 

Yeah, basically I figured that. I dont understand why I feel that way, we've been together 2 1/2 years and I know I want to. Ugh. Lameness. Maybe we will just have to attend an amazing drunken party and find someone willing and then never talk about it again lol? Sounds like a much better plan to me.

 

Jealousy gets in the way. Let go of those emotions and the love will remain.

 

I think you could find someone on craigslist....
I'm the same way - about not wanting to see them again..

 

you could try finding a hot couple. Take turns in a threesome. maybe with or without the other in the room with you.

 

Well, my exgf had really bad jealousy issues. But she finally decided it was time to let go, and do a threesome. We had a MFF, and it was definitely fun. My ex is Bi so it was easier for her to get into it. It was one of her friends from high school. They still talk, and they're still really good friends. And the trust was there. She was definitely worried about the same issues though, about me wanting to leave her for this girl and all that. Which never happened. I left her for other reasons not related to sex. We also had a MMF threesome, which was pretty fun too, because she enjoyed it. Seeing her happy made me happy. And it was a guy we could trust. I don't think I'd ever have a threesome with someone we had just met. Take the time to get to know them. Know each other's limitations. And give the utmost respect to one another. Like with the MMF threesome, I didn't want her to give him a blowjob. And they both respected that. But she wanted him to go down on her, and I allowed it. Cause she loves it.

For me it's not something I'd do with a random person. I have to gain trust in them first. And you ultimately have to respect your partners' wishes. The only thing that my ex wanted out of me during the FFM threesome, was that I pay more attention to her and not the other girl.

Threesomes are definitely fun though.