...a common feeling. it's okay to welcome the lonely feelings, but don't let them rule you. the universe has a funny way of rewarding loneliness with more loneliness if you give in to it. potential gf's pick up on it, so the more self-content you are, the more attractive you'll be. but you can't pretend; you actually need to create the feeling of already having a gf. if it sounds hard, it's really not
you actually need to create the feeling of already having a gf. < wrong. that would be lieing to yourself...go do something else, to cheer yourself up. I find buying a lego kit and assembling every so often, or simply practising my juggling makes me happier in general - but you probably have your own little things you like doing. do something constructive and rewarding. the opposite sex ain't the only thing in life. ive been down that depressive path before and all it did was annoy my friends. once you're morale is sorted, what're the best places to go / things to do to meet a potential gf? baffles me.
couldn't you see what I was saying? What you described about lying to himself would be the pretending I referred to. What I meant was being self-content and actualized enough to not require a gf to transplant those feelings onto him. Whatever he feels is lacking in his life that would be filled by a girl, he can fill himself, and that is what girls are more attracted to.
I need a BF. I have a cat. Its not the same. I am getting very lonely. Now that the holidays are coming up.
The holidays are the time to spoil yourself when you're single you will feel love when the right moment comes
