for some reason, gays always come onto me. i wish women were as bold. the other day even, i was sitting outside my buddy's place downtown and some random 40 year old dude comes up to me and offers me 10$ if he can suck my dick. i told me him that i wasn't interested and straight then went inside. it was just weird. a few months before that, some dude i was chillin with for a couple weeks needed help moving out of his old place (he was evicted). i helped him for a while, he showed me his straight porn collection then asked if i wanted to wank one in his bedroom. i said no thanks, but i could go for a good nap in a real bed. he said it was cool. i crashed for a while. when i woke up, he came out to me. it was weird as hell. a few months before that, i was chillin out by this gas station by my house and was talkin to some random weird dude. he didn't seem like he was very good with social situations and had too many friends so when he offered to give me a ride, i was like, sure, why not (it was 3am but in a nice neighborhood and i had my knife on me so i was cool). anyway, i started feeling weird a little bit down the road, so i asked him if he had any herb. he said no. (a roadie woulda made this feel a little more normal). i then asked him if he had any blow. he replied "yes, i suck dick." i turned to him and was like "dude, you should turn around right now." he didn't, so i had to scare him up a bit with a couple stories...and he went around the block, dropped me off, and i haven't seen him there since. fucked up. the last two dudes i asked if i came off as gay. it's like...what the fuck...don't you have one of those gaydar things. they both said i didn't come off as queer, which is cool, but what's not cool is dudes comin' onto me like that when the women don't. bogus. anyway, should i be flattered or start questioning my hetero street credentials?
No you shouldn’t be flattered in fact you should be upset, I would Then again if a guy came onto me his teeth would lying beside his unconscious body after receiving a right hook :cheers2: Hotwater
it's happened to me about 4 or 5 times. I don't really mind unless it gets creepy, and only 1 of those times was especially creepy. I thought I'd have to fight him, but he was this big fat assed son of a bitch.
I"m not a dude so don't have dude's mentality.... however, I am always very flattered when a woman comes on to me.
yeah i had one much older gay guy try to hit on me, it was really odd from the start, but i was like no way is he gay. then i had to say whoa im not gay when he started talking about his past boyfriends and all of a sudden i came up in the convo. its weird as fuck. women are just stupid when it comes to dating. theyre more of a tease and back down while insidechewing themselves for it type. i wish women were actually straight forward, like hey man, i think you look hot, lets fuck... instead of i like you hair, oh wow id love to see you but im busy for the next 200 days, id love to but i cant. oh wait i can, but i just want to be friends... fucking bollox, sometimes i think of turning gay, but im not attracted to men at all :/
wow, really? huh. I've had guys come on to me and it doesn't offend me. I was offered money once, and that was way more uncomfortable. I think even if a hot woman offered me money for sex I would react unfavorably. be flattered if you want, it's reasonable to assume that if guys find you attractive, women will as well. maybe you should try adopting your would-be gay lovers' straightforward approach
i had a guy get all offended once when i asked him out...prolly cuz i said something about my student loan money burning a hole in my pocket. i think he took it the wrong way. i just meant i had saturday night fever...wanted to go out on the town and have some fun...whereas normally i was too poor to do anything like that, lol. dude, i wasn't trying to buy you! lol, oh well, whatever. :tongue: i wouldn't worry about guys making passes. i don't think it means anything about you necessarily. guys are just way more sexually aggressive.
