My Boyfriend wants Analingus

OK, Hi I'm new here! My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and have a pretty amazing sex life together. We have done anal sex twice so far, mainly because he is quite large, so it isn't easy to do and takes a lot of time.

He has performed analingus on me a couple times, and once I got over the ick factor, it felt good and I didn't mind it. HOWEVER, I just found out that he has not been joking about me giving him analingus!
He has a long sexual history and apparently has had this done to him by two women before. Which kind of irks me, because I'm not a prude, but I also have a few concerns about this kinda thing.

I have considered using a dental dam even though it seems a bit weird to me. STILL getting over the ick factor is hard!!! HE IS A MAN!!! He has a hairy butt and he FARTS ALL the time!!!! How on earth does he expect me to take it seriously??? LOL......

Any advice? I just don't want to be boring.

 

lol i can see it now ur doing him then bam farts in ur face LOL gf did it to me before we couldnt stop laughing for a hr

to get rid of the hair wax him hheheheheheh
as for the farts if he is going to grap his balls and say dont u dare in ur most evilest voice

 

LOL ....that is hilarious.....yeah i don't think this can be done without laughing

 

Why not? I do this to my man after he has a bath all the time. If he actually dared to fart in my face he know how much shit he'd be in so he doesn't. I think it's fun. If he'll do it for you, you should be able to do it for him.

 

I've had my bronze eye tongued many times...I have yet to fart during said pleasure. If there's even the slightest chance I just say "Not tonight Darlin'."

Just talk to him about it. Express your concerns and see what happens. You don't have to do it if your dead set against it and he shouldn't pressure you once you've made the decision.

It seems pretty simple to me...

 

Baby, what you need to do is break up and hook up with me!

Joking aside, I love it when a girl licks my ass. Even more when she frenches it. There is a lot of prep work involved with that kinky act, and here are a few suggestions for beginners.

1. Get them clean. A first resort is a mutual shower, which adds to the fun anyway. Use the scrubber and use lots of body wash to wash out each other's assholes to the point that both of you are clean.

2. Shave off that hair. While in the shower, use a disposable razor and shave all the hair around the asshole. Get it completely bald, because hair simply ruins the moment.

3. If you are still very squeamish about it, use enemas and flush them out. That way, you are absolutely certain there is nothing in there.

Once everything is cleaned and shaven, spread those cheeks open, stick your tongue in all the way and french it hard, baby! Guaranteed you'll get a marriage proposal very soon.

 

The Master Ass Eater concurs with The Backdoor Man. You may want to suggest to him to ease up on the farting so that you have a chance to stop associating his ass with these untimely explosions. However, keep in mind that everyone rips daily so it's not that big a deal. Us guys want our wives or girlfriends to fulfill all of our fantasies. Anything left undone will grow to an obsession in his mind, so it's nice that you're considering becoming a master ass eater. Enjoy the feast! He's a lucky guy!

 

Thanks so much for the advice! Hopefully I'll get over it, if anything maybe a dental dam if I feel its necessary.

 

I don't think you are being fair to your partner. It is completely normal for a man to want anal pleasure. Being in a relationship is about giving and taking. You have taken anal and if he wants you should give anal.


Tiffany

 

I've been with my boyfriend for about two and a half months, and am always rubbing, tickling, touching him, even if it's not in a sexual way, I just have to be touching him to be content. I can't even sleep anymore unless my arm is around him.

So anyways, a few nights ago we were laying and bed and I was doing the usual tickling of his back, legs and bum while showering him with kisses. And somehow I ended up eating his ass like it was a tub of ben and jerry's ice cream. I've never done anything to that effect before then and according to him he's never had anyone do it to him either. Completely experimental but oh good god was it fucking amazing. He's normally very very quiet during any kind of sexual activity, plea for a single moan or groan when he cums but when I was back there munching on him he made more noise then any of the times we've had sex combined.

The ick factor is nothing. In fact I'm quite surprised at how un-gross the whole thing is. There's no taste other than the taste of skin, and unless you have a freakishly long and abnormaly strong tongue, you just can't get it far enough in there to get anything icky on it.

Not only was I suprised by the lack of 'ick' but also by how much I found myself enjoying it. I have never been more turned on by anything in my life, and actually got off a few times with nothing but the aid of extacy.

If he had asked for me to do it, I'm positive my reaction would be the same as yours, 'ewww gross, I don't think so'. In fact, beforehand if I'd even thought it up myself I still would have thought it was gross. But where it was a completely spontanious act, it was very easy to find enjoyable, and I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't be happy doing it every damn day.

It may gross you out before hand, but give it a go and then decide what you think of it. But I strongly advise against the whole dental dam idea. I don't imagine having a peice of saran wrap pushed up against or in your asshole feeling even remotely good, and it is certainly no match for a slippery wet tongue.

 

i absolutely loved it!

 

Nordic Nymph has the right idea. With me it doesn't matter how much we have in common conversationally, if we aren't both eating lots of ass, then well, I'll guess we'll just be friends - and I'll feast elsewhere!

 

Wow, may I marry you? I promise I'll eat your ass for an hour every night.

 

Honestly, I advise not doing it. Sure, some level of compromise is important in a healthy sex life, but doing things you blatantly don't want to do isn't a good idea IMO. If something is a little icky but may be fun, try it. If something is just gross, be honest about it.

 

It's not gross. It's fun. You can't knock it until you try it.

 

i still say wax him for the LOLZ cum on u knowu want to here ur BF scream in pain as his hair is getting ripped off his ass. ohhh get his balls done too

 

I would love a girl with a tongue piercing to rim and eat out my anus, dipping her tongue in real deep!

 

I dont have a problem with doing it. You really cant taste anything. Just tell him to make sure he scrubs it good first.

 

So we've got "master ass eater", "the backdoor man" and uh... "weasel hunter" in this thread.

WIN. Bahahahah.