So I'm a sixteen (nearly seventeen) year old girl & lately I've been crazy about one of the girls I work with. She's nineteen & has a boyfriend of six years or so. I don't consider myself bisexual, more bi-curious, but I don't know what it is about her. She has a great personality & we talk a lot at work but we've never hung out outside of work. && She's gorgeous. I wanna say I feel like there's some sort of sexual tension between us, but I could be completely misinterpreting everything. Still, we joke around a lot & it's always a little sexual. Like, she'll slap my ass or kiss me on the cheek, just for fun. You know how you mess around that way with your friends. But today, I was complaining that my lower back hurt & she came up behind me & rubbed it for a good couple of minutes, all the way up to my neck & shoulders & I would be lying if I said it didn't totally turn me on. I've been thinking about her a ton lately & I don't know if she feels the way I do or what. As far as I know, she's straight, but I could be wrong. She dresses kinda punky/emo-ish & I know it's stereotypical, but a lot of those girls ARE bisexual/lesbian. I wanna bring this up with her, but I don't know how.
Invite her over to your house after work sometime if you know your parents aren't gonna be there. Hang with her and talk about her boyfriend and let the conversation take a turn toward sex. You might even tell her that you're curious. If your house won't work, maybe hers will. Just ask her if she wants to hang out after work.
see if she wants to hang out after work some time, if you both smoke pot, then ask her over for a sesh. What your feeling is totally normal, i lust after girl companionship sometimes too, girls are so sensual and know what to do to you.. anyway.. yeah invite her over and try to get to know her better, then tell her i guess. let us know what happends =]
Had another idea. The fact that she gave you a massage and slaps you on the butt tells me that she is a touchy-feely kinda person. The next time you are with her, do the same for her...rub her shoulders when you are behind her...maybe, tell her that she feels tense and needs some "one-on-one" massage action. Give her just a little sampling of you touching her, then offer her a better back rub when you're alone.
