I'm 21 and I'm stil confused. I've come to the conclusion that I'm bisexual and I was fine with that cause I knew I liked girls alot but guys as well. A little. But if I start thinking about it alot it gets very complicated cause I'm leaning so much torwards girls. I'm starting to think that maybe I'm gay. Thinking about it gves me a headache. I still find guys attractive but I've never really enjoyed sex with guys and I'm rarely turned on by a guy. Everytime a guy hits on me at the bar I make an exuse cause I don't want to be with them. Could I be a lesbian? Cause Bi was easier...Easier to tell people cause it's both sexes. I'm not sure I could ever tell my family I'm a lesbian. I just want to talk to people who will understand cause no one I know will... xoxo Helena
Aw hey its ok, I feel kinda confused at the moment too coz only been with guys but then feel stuff for girls and when kissed a girl it was amazing and sometimes in like films and stuff i always think the hot lead girl is far more interesting than the lead guy and that kinda confuses me even though it doesn't matter coz its only a film but still kinda gets me thinking. So i just figure explore and in time you will know what feels right i really am rubbish at giving advice i'm so sorry! but hope kinda helps :/ hugs xx
No it's great thank you. I don't have anyone to talk t so I was hoping someone would answer to this thread. I'm just so confused. I've been telling everyone Im Bi but I just don't know. Girls just turns me on way more then guys. Guys can be good looking/beautiful but girls are just sexy. I know what you mean about movies. A female lead role (a hot one lol) is much better then a male one. Like in Step up 2 the streets. Sexy as hell. Ok well thank you for ansering. If you're interested in a new friend you can add me on msn as xdancerx87x@hotmail.com
I know what you mean. Ive been struggling with sexuality these past few years, and I am at the point now where guys are just rediculously Mmmmmmmmmmmm and girls are still hot, but more like art. Good to look at, but nothing sexual in there for me
I'm in a very similar situation. I've never actually been sexually attracted to any girl. I've had sex with girls, but I was drunk each time. I think I'm just finding it hard to accept "I'm gay." That, and where I come from being gay means you're gross or wierd.
