My new girlfriend that I've only been dating for like a week is starting to feel that we are too different from each other because she's the kind of girl that goes out and gets fucked up all of the time and I'm the kind of guy that will go out and just smoke pot or not even that, sometimes LSD. She thinks that she's going to be too much for me to handle. I told her that I'm ok with people getting fucked up because I've been around that kind of stuff before and I've seen some pretty messed up shit before. I told her that even though I know that's not going to change the way that she feels about it that I'm also ok with her going to parties without me, she doesn't feel comfortable getting messed up with me there. What can I tell her that will make her feel better about it. I really like this girl, I have ever since I first saw her. What can I do or say to keep this relationship. I just don't want to lose her. I was dumped once before and it sucked ass for days. I can't even imagine what kind of depression I would go through without this girl in my life. (i hope I'm not just having false feelings, I know that we've only been together for a week but I really like her)
Wow. You feel like that after a week? Aaah... young love. There's nothing as terribly depressing and painful like it! And why does she not "feel comfortable getting messed up with me there."?? Is she afraid she'll do something questionable and you will see?
Well, I'm not the kind of guy to go ask every girl out that I want to bang. I've had my eye on this girl for a while, she's special. I have no idea. That's what I thought at first, then I thought maybe she'd be embarrassed with me there because I'm not usually at parties. I only thought that because she said "I know what will happen and I know it will be awkward" or something like that. But if that's the case then I can't date someone that doesn't care enough about me that they care what others think. But I don't know if that's the case at all. I don't know what to do. I'm going to see if I can talk to her tonight. Also, whenever I text her she gives me these one word answers. i.e. I texted her right before she was supposed to be at work saying "Have fun at work, don't eat too much ice cream " (she works at Friendly's) and then she texted me back with just a "Yup"... wtf was that about? Yes, I'm sure I can handle her. I wouldn't have asked her out if I didn't think so. So basically it sounds to me like she doesn't want to give me a chance to be with her at all. gah!
I hate to break it to yah, sweetie... you sound like a good kid, but it sounds like your love interest isnt exactly resiprocating the feelings. It's not you, it's her. She seems to have some issues. I don't know what to tell you.
Yeah, it's over and I'm OK with it. She told me that she thought she could change to be with me but it turned out she couldn't. Right now she's focused on partying and I'm just not the right guy for that part of her life. I can respect that and I might hate it but I can respect it.
Your 18, and you don't yet realize that a week doesn't constitute "dating" besides the fact that your way to young to be doing LSD. Why don't you let your head harden and your brain ripen before you start on the LSD let alone Pot. Some one needs to slap you. Just flirt and screw around with chicks, it the time in your life you want to be talking to many different girls to educate your self about women.
