I am only 19. When I was 17-18 I dated a girl who changed my life. She was everything I hoped for in a girl till we eventually broke up a few weeks later, initiated by me. Well I am over her by now and am Single. Whatever. But tonight, several months (over a year) after week broke up, I found out that she fucked one of my friends just a few days before we dated. At first I didnt care cause I broke up with her and knew i didnt care for her anymore, but its now beating me up inside. What do you guys think about this situation. Like, it shouldnt bother me, but looking back on it, my life would be completely different if I had known about this. And the worst part is, apprently all my friends knew, including people i rarely talked to. Why would they hold that from me? Im still best friends with a few of the people that knew about it. How should I handle that? Im so confused...
Well, she should have told you about her past sexual experiences while you were dating, esp. if you were sexually active. You have a right to know what you're getting into before you go to bed with her. Second, I'd talk to some of those friends you mentioned and ask them why they didn't tell you. it seems to me that some of them should have.
