My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a few weeks now but he has been unable to make me orgasm or cum. Which positions should we try that would work best to getting me off considering he can no matter which one.
4 responses, 4 different answers.. I think you're just going to have to experiment, but that's half the fun right there anyway.
having sex for a few weeks without cumming isn't bad... i went a few years without cumming. of course, now i know my body, which hopefully you will also.
If at first you don't succeed ....try and try and try and try and try and try and try and try again and again and again and again
Foreplay is your magical word. Have a lot of foreplay beforehand, without thinking of when to cum, but actually enjoying the moment. When you go for the act try it against a wall from behind, needless to mention how great doggy style is.
For me (and roughly 60% of the rest of the women in the world...), I almost NEVER have an orgasm during actual intercourse, regardless of positions, though some do feel better than others. Unless there's some clit stimulation happening simultaneously. Girl on top is a really obvious one, either of you can do that. Any other positions you can probably tackle yourself... One of my faaaavourites for that, is actually a pretty simple one... I guess it's like missionary, except the guy's legs are together, in the middle, with the girl's spread out. Kind of like a peace sign. Regardless, there's some really good, deep penetration, and it's niiiice. Works like a charm every time.
My fav to get me reved up is from behind... but to actually cum I like him on top with my legs up and back almost to my head....ummmm... or the backwards cowboy where he can play with other certain spots that make me go hmmmm....
wow, is that true. i orgasm 99.99% of the time. damn that sucks. anyway, my favourite position, is being on top like others have said. Gives u good control of things and my boyfriend seems to like it too so everyones a winner. best of luck with it!
i cum most times, though, but i like missionary, mmmm, though this peace sign one sounds good....on top i dont like as much...better when he does the work