Ok here's the story... there's this girl I really like a lottt... and she likes me too, and we're in different cities so I won't be seeing her that often... anyway, I'll be seeing her next month though.... and we're not going to be sexual active. Here's the thing... I talk to this other girl sometimes online, and basically, she shows herself to me on a webcam sometimes and in naked photos, and we pretty much just talk dirty and jerk off to each other..... that's pretty much it. Now I dont want anything to ruin what could be everything with the first girl.... so would you consider what I do with this webcam girl cheating/ just wrong? Ok here's the story... there's this girl I really like a lottt... and she likes me too, and we're in different cities so I won't be seeing her that often... anyway, I'll be seeing her next month though.... and we're not going to be sexual active. Here's the thing... I talk to this other girl sometimes online, and basically, she shows herself to me on a webcam sometimes and in naked photos, and we pretty much just talk dirty and jerk off to each other..... that's pretty much it. Now I dont want anything to ruin what could be everything with the first girl.... so would you consider what I do with this webcam girl cheating/ just wrong? like is this different from watching porn?
I think its a little different than watching porn, but I dont see anything wrong with it. Until you and the girl you like make things official, status-wise, I'd say go for it.
I'm still thinking about it.... i mean, realistically, I wouldn't even consider doing anything sex wise with any girl but this one..... this is just me getting off pretty much..... anyone else have any opinions?
whats cheating and what isn't cheating is entirely dependent on the relationship rules you have set up with your partner...if you're not exclusive with this other girl, i don't see how it could be viewed as cheating. If you do become exclusive with this girl, then discuss it before you continue the camming
if you plan on building a relationship with the first girl i'd say you should break it off with the webcam girl. i'd definitely consider it cheating if i was dating a guy who was having online webcam sex sessions with some girl. however i'd say that porn is different, because you probably don't have a sexual relationship with the girl in the video/picture, so it's not like there's a steady thing going on between you and the porn star. just my opinion.
what women dont know wont hurt them lol have ur fun while u can and if the first girl becouse priority then politly tell the online girl good bye
If you were married, it'd be cheating for sure... If you were engaged, it probably would be cheating... But you're just dating.............. I wouldn't judge you badly for it, but she might very well think otherwise. So you're at risk of getting dumped. just an opinion.
We haven't actualy went out yet but I'd consider that we're dating just based on how much we talk etc... the thing is I would never ever ever even think of doing anything actually like face to face with this girl... I mean, is this different from watching a girl on one of those porn websites masturbate?
Well, I guess its different from porn because you actually kinda know the person lol. But, you have no serious commitment with the first girl yet, so I wouldn't consider it cheating. But, when you start getting physically and emotionally attached to the first girl, then I would consider it to be wrong, eventhough its just for pure enjoyment lol.
I just talked to like my closest friend and she said she'd consider it cheating because I'd be provoking her... and I realized, that if I feel guilty, well then there's my answer, and no way would I trade her for the girl im crazy about. Thanks everyone.
