I need some ideas on how to get over my "block" when it comes to telling my spouse we are through. I have already filed but have not had her served. Some kind of weird block. I've spent time with a relationship counselor already. I need creative ideas......I'm even willing to hire someone to help me out here. Thanks
Are you having second thoughts? Do you think that maybe you could work threw it? Are you guys seperated? More info please.
Definately not having 2nd thoughts. We are not separated even though I travel and am gone over 50% of the time and itcan feel like it. We have had discussions about our relationship and my feelings. I have moved out of the bedroom twice. She is not wanting to let go at all.
Don't move out of the bedroom...move out of the house! Divorce isn't easy on either party, and you probably feel bad being the one to end the marriage. It's completely normal, but someone has to be the "bad guy" and call it quits and by filing you did. You say that she doesn't want to let go, but by remaining in the home you are giving her false hope that things might change. Move out! Yeah it sucks financially, but if you want out of the marriage, then get out of the marriage.
