HI! Okay so the thing is i like this girls and i believed that she liked me. I started spending a lot of time with her and texting whenever we werent together. She always complimented me and one night she asked me to go out to a party with her and act like her boyfriend so she would not be annoyed by this boy that also liked her. She also asked constantly about other girls and if i liked them.Even when i went on holiday we emailed every day and she always told me that she missed me incredibly and couldn't wait for me to get back. After all of this happening i inmediately believed that she also liked me, today i decided that i would make a move, however im a really shy person so i could only get myself to tell her how i felt in msn ( i know this was not a wise choice) When i told her i really liked her, she acted surprised and did not respond the compliment. Now i feel really akward!! Did i just misunderstand all the signs or do you believe that she actually likes me? I know you dont know her and everything but i would appreciate any advice from anyone who has any experience in this sort of thing. Cheers!!
Im 16, and i basically thought it was obvious she liked me but she just sounded so taken back when I told her that I liked her.
Well obviously you shouldn't have told her via MSN. You have to stick you neck out there; how can you expect to gain anything if you don't step up and take the risk required?
AHHHH MSN message i love u not a good move women love confidence and assert ur self to her ( u ever watch spongebob) so on just go up to her and tell her
this is why girls are so hard to understand....when they tell you they miss you, want to be with you, "act" as their boyfriend, and then when you tell them your feelings (who cares if it was on a chat messenger....sometimes thats the easiest place to open up) they get scared and make the situation really awkward for the guy....i wish they would make it easier on us and quit sending all these conflicting signals.....but it sounds like she does have feelings for you. I would go for it, and if it fails then i wouldnt be too worried about it, just learn from it and move on. You cant win them all lol....Plenty more girls out there for you...
welcome to the world of relationships thats how its is they like to plot and plain evil things lol no really y cant women be more forward (not saying u all are some on here are very forward and opened minded)lol