The sanity of no sexual orientation

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by groovecookie, Sep 16, 2008.

  1. groovecookie

    groovecookie Member

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    I have been questioning my sexuality all my life. Now, just when I was sure I had settled on bi, I met a woman who rocks my world like no guy ever has and so I'm questioning again. But I don't have the asprin for it.

    Sexual orientation labels are fine in some capacities, but I think many people easily get too caught up in the question of which limiting box we should put ourselves in.

    All of the boxes, straight, gay, bi, carry connotations that may or may not apply to the person who chooses that box.

    If I call myself bi for instance, I have already implied more than just the fact that I am attracted to both sexes. I have also implied by using the label that I can never choose one person since, being bi, I must necessarily be with both men and women.

    So if it's put to me where I have to make a choice I pick bi but where I am what I say I am I say that I am a person who's sexual preference does not limit him.
     
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