Do you ever want to bone someone but dont?

When you do start thinking it is worth it, then it probably IS worth it to everyone involved... But at that point I suppose ending the marriage would happen before the few hours of fun did.

 

Yeah , more and more often , I'll say "I'm a bit tired tonight , how about I pop round on Monday instead".Too much meaningless sex can be , well ... meaningless .. duhhh!

Reasons are usually:-
1)I dont want her getting more "attached" to me.
2)Pure laziness , indifference
3)She needs to sort out shit with another , instead.
4)I cant be bothered with all the "romance" beforehand.

What I find harder is whether to turn down the dating /romancing side with someone I'm undecided on , dating wise.
Like when I get daft , superstitious ideas like "destiny" etc..

 

Desire is human.

 

A lot of times I'll see a girl I want to be with. But the thought of it doesn't sit well with my husband. At all. So I'm s.0.l.

 

Is this like the Eat=Fuck thing?

I human a cheeseburger.

Or that White Zombie song "More Desire than Desire"

We're all desire.

Not sure about that one Marie...

 

You are not sure that there is desire in each person. some desire different things like food or homes. some desire a hot fuck. some desire to be noticed. some desire to be left alone. some desire to beat the shit out of someone. some desire to let the gas out of their belly and let a big old fart.

we are all victims of desire. whether it be sexual or not.

 

Read my post again. I wasn't questioning that we have desire, I was questioning the Desire=Human thing.

Because I assumed you were making another word rule to go with mine.

If we keep doing this over the next few months we can create our own language.

 

ahhhh.....oops. I am at work and have to close the window down when people walk by so missed the essence.

You are right. I don't think they can be interchanged.

*puts hand out to be smacked*

 

I don't hang out with cool, attractive women lest it be for the express purpose of bonin'.

AS you can see, I'm not a good "friend."

 

Oh yeah.

 

Well I do have a pair so... uh... YEAH!!

I wonder if your wife has the same issues? She has some dudes that need a bonin but she aint ready to cheat yet... or....

 

this isn't about the tattoo'd ex con is it?!

 

Well he does sound like a good catch...

 

love the new pic piaf!

he does sound like a great catch doesnt he? if frieden is going to pass than I'm game...send him my way

 

to answer the OP's question...often.

 

Yes being gone 5 months out of the year makes a guy think....

Maybe "ready to cheat" was not the best way to word it but I do know the flirting has gone past the innocent kind.