After years of uptight homophobic attitudes, many men, me included, just don't think it's a big deal anymore. I actually think that many married men were jealous of the bi/gay lifestyle because the sex was easy, no hastle and very satisfying. Not getting any at home and the ease of getting a bj from a gay or bi friend, sounded very appealing, compared to having to cheat with another woman. Who needs the hastle? It was hastle enough with one woman, forget about another that you have to deal with. It seemed to be a logical choice. I have been eating my own cum for decades. I always thought I could suck a cock better than my wife , or most of the other women who gave me bjs. If I were able to meet someone in the same mindset, it would be so cool. Thing is, being married, many men couldn't afford bringing home some disease,aids or the like. Also many married guys aren't about to cruise some gay bar.
You probably can suck cock better than your wife. Bi guys always say a guy knows how to take one better than a girl since you actually have one and know what you like.
I would do it in a min., but alas it just seems that guys like me are just either far and few between or just plain affraid to let it be known(thats kinda like me). If or when I might pick up on the right vibes it will be off to the races or at least thats what I'll tell the wife.
It's not like you could ask another guy that you associate with and jepordize a lot of things. You can't go to a gay bar, unless you are a traveling salesman without the fear of being spotted, forget about the disease potential. All we want is to recieve a good bj. Giving one in return isn't such a bad thing, is it?
I often wonder if i could give a better bj than a women. However, I'm not a fan of the taste of cum. Also like you say, i'm afraid of the disease potential. But then again, fooling around with women has the same risk, no?
Well, after having fun with a few guys I'm certain that I give better blowjobs than my wife does. Not sure why, but it almost seems instinctive.