*disgusted* not going back to school this Fall

For me, it's not enough to seduce a woman.

I have to seduce her with the least possible amount of effort.

 

Oh it's over with that guy, it's been over for 2 years. I don't wanna go back to him, just school now, and I do have a boyfriend I love as well, but this time he's not the priority. School is.

 

It's not at all about that guy anymore..

 

You guys really don't get it, please stop pretending you do and *please* stop assuming things about me, you don't know how I work.

 

Thanks everyone for the advice and support.

But I'd like to clear things up: you imagine things about me.

This isn't about a guy anymore, it hasn't been in 2 years, I do have a boyfriend I love but he's not my priority, only finishing what I started is because it was a big sacrifice, orginally because of something but it turned into something else, I don't know how else to put it.

Also I don't mind working at all, I have, already. Only I know it's not gonna pay for school.

And no I can't transfer to a European school until I get a degree. I don't want to anyways, I have my life there in the U.S and wanna graduate, work and live there.

Thanks again for your advice and support.

 

Sorry if I made assumptions.

I understand it better now.

 

You don't want your 35 hour work weeks and 5 weeks paid vacation?

 

Hey I don't pretend I just go with the flow
Go madam Penny!

 

I'm still wondering what you go to school for?

 

duh, to meet boys!


kidding, kidding...

 

I'm sorry, BA in Communication/Public Relations at William Paterson University of New Jersey

 

there wasnt a lot of "assuming" since you stated on the first page of the thread:

If the priority REALLY is now to get an education and finish what you started, thats great. Who cares if it takes an extra 1 or 2 or more semesters, I mean the point is to finish and get the education not how fast one can accomplish that. Get a job, save your money ans finish school when you can.

You are young and should start enjoying life now and stop being so extreme about every little bump in the road. Because one day you will wake up and realize just how much time you wasted obsessing over trivial things.

 

Penny , I almost moved to the US to do a 3 yr postgrad( law).
I think only 2 schools that I fancied in the whole country , would give me full scholarship and fees paid.
( and I'd probably ruffled too many feathers on my 1st degree to get the glowing refs for that , I think)
Even Colombia , Chicago , places like that , it was "find most of it yourself".

In the end , I decided not to bother , for career reasons.
But an education system that serves people with the money , rather than the skills , doesnt mean much at all IMO.: (

But I think ,there must be some sort of hardship circumstances where u could tranfer credits???Your talents will shine thro , whatever , in the end: )
Good luck.