Worried About Effects of Masturbating Too Much

Hey Fellow Wankers,

I am 16 years old and have recently started masturbating daily or twice a day. I haven't tried it without looking at porn online, and I'm worried that if I keep doing this, I'll no longer be able to reach orgasm with a girl or that I won't be able to reach it without doing kinky stuff like what they do in pornos.

Is this a legitimate worry?

 

It can be.

 

Just don't expect sex to be like it is in porn and you should be ok.


Tiffany

 

It's so much more magickal and intimate than porn...

 

You're young, don't worry about it. Your sexuality will guide you at this point and all things are possible. What you do viewing porn is just a diversion, and what you think up in imagination is just a diversion. When you are with a real person, you will fall into the excitement of that exploration at the time, and likely come up with a big boner to execute that excitement.

Tips on wanking. Don't squeeze your cock too tight - could cause damage to the blood flow. Don't be too rough or fast as you may condition yourself and find it difficult with the less restrictive humping in a vagina. (butt fucking is tighter - use a condom in either case).

The age-old adage is still valid: If it feels good - Do it!

 

My thing is: Do it if you want to, just follow said advice above and you'll be fine.

 

Using the internet and porn can potentially become dangerous if it becomes an obsession and if you can only orgasm with it. Nothing, masturbation and porn included, is bad or harmful in moderation. So, use the internet, but try not to make it the only way you can get off. How about trying to fantasize or working yourself up in the shower? Too much of anything is bad, but if you do it in moderation, it is ok.

 

For me over the last two years I've noticed that jacking it has become somewhat boring, I guess at first I was sort of doing it too much, now if I do it, it's like once a week. But I'm working on not doing it at all.

 

Might I enquire, why?

 

Youngster, you cannot really wank too much. The whole system will rise up against you in complaint. But it takes a lot more than 2/3 x a day. FYI, I, for one example, have never wanked to porn, nor with anyone egging me on. I've managed to engage my self with my own mind without any difficulty lo, these many years. I really think I can fantasize more realistically, more luridly, and more bombastically than any porn. Hasn't failed me yet. Try it!

 

Just don't want to do it anymore.