anyone else a late bloomer?

reading through these threads i feel so weird.
i had my first sexual experience at 14.
nothing for a long time.

then i started about 6 months ago with everything.

people are talking about masturbation at 8!

anyone else feel a little left out?

 

wow, this is really disheartening.

 

masturbation at 8 is really early. No one feels left out. If you're late you're late. Be glad it
s late and not never. That would suck.

 

If I remember correctly I had my first 'experience' at 12... But I definitely don't feel left out.

 

I still haven't had sex and I'm 14 but I don't care, try not to rush things. If you rush, it always ends up bad or not what you thought it'd be.

 

what do you mean 14 and STILL haven't had sex? That's still quite early, I wouldn't sweat it

 

I'm not sweating it, but I was using my age as a means to say a lot of idiots around here feel they absolutely have to have sex, and after three years of middle school, you pretty much begin to notice who's lying and who isn't.

 

Ah yeah, that's really annoying, I hate it when all the young girls in the years below me go about bragging about how they're having sex with 18-23 year olds. It's sick, as it's usually 13-15 year olds. I know they can do whatever they want, and ofcourse it's inevitable that it's going to happen but I still can't help feeling that I have a bone to pick with the 18-23 year old assholes

 

13-15 year olds having sex with 23 year olds? Isn't this against the law or smt?

 

Darlin, I am 19 and I just had sex last week for the first time. And I didn't do anything with anyone until I was 17 so don't worry I'm actually slightly disappointed by all the kids under 16 who have had sex, and masturbated and all this stuff. The world is going down the drain when kids in ELEMENTARY school are doing this stuff. It's very gross.
So don't worry! Nothing to fret.

 

i didn't start masturbating until 17, i'm glad that i'm note alone in waiting.

 

nothing wrong with being a "late bloomer"

 

it's just frustrating sometimes.

 

i'm saying that as a "late bloomer" myself

so i can relate

 

I began to masturbate around age 10 as I remember. I didn't have sex until I was around 18.

 

lol... I started masturbating at about 11-12, but didn't have sex until I was in my 20s...

I certainly wouldn't suggest anyone else wait that long, and if I could rewind my life that's probably the one thing I would change, but 14 is definitely too young. Kids really shouldn't sweat about this stuff - it'll happen when you're ready for it.

 

..being among the last of most of my friends to reach puberty really sucked.

And growing up in a closed minded community made it worse!

I'm way over it now; but, I wish I would've had someone to talk to about my feelings of sexual frustration when I was a teen!!

 

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I didn't even get my first kiss until I was 20.

 

i started masturbating when i was like 12 then i had sex for the first time at 14