how do i get ova a misscarage

me and my bf thried for a baby i got pregnant but 6 weeks in i lost my baby i feel like im to blame and i feel lost and dont no how to get over this if post your comments on what i should do

 

Can you clean up the spelling.

 

Accept it, it wasn't your time to duplicate yourselves.

 

Honestly? You never really get over it. Sure, the emotional pain eases over time, but...I've lost two babies myself, and I still think about them even though it's been almost 10 years ago since I lost the first one and 6 years since I lost the other. I still cry, not like I once did of course, but it's something that stays with you. What might have been.

Just know that you're not alone, and that you will get through this. Take it one day at a time, and allow yourself to grieve in order to help yourself heal.

Many hugs...

 

listen i am going through a hard time and dont need scarcastic ppl like you ok u sad bitch

 

Please don't blame yourself for what happened, you were not ready and it wasn't time.

I myself had one at 18 , and i know at 18 would not have been able, stable or even emotionally stable to have one.

Life takes its course and NOW i'm 26 and i am unable to have children. Take one day at a time and release how you feel journalize and understand and come to realize its not you that caused it.

 

but i am 19 hun and it reli hard expechily when i cnt chat to my bf cuz he jst as hert and hes blocking it outhttp://www.hipforums.com/newforums/images/smilies/confused.gif

 

I realize that you can't talk to your bf thats why we are here to support you. Men stick with the men we stick all together. ;-)

Let him be himself if he vents thats just how he is feelings let him know it wasn't you.. Your body wasn't ready .. Thts how i see it.

Tell him you'll be ready to talk to him when hes ready!!

Peace

 

You can call me what you want, but IMHO if you want people to understand your situation it's better to type words out clearly.

Sorry for your loss but alot of things play into losing a child, bad diet, drug use, but my friend lost a child recently and the doctor told her that 90% of the time that it happens is because of a chromozone problem with the child. Something that you couldn't control, and not your fault.

You have plenty of time to have children, your still very young. It will happen, and work, when it's ment too.