When I think about this get mixed emotions...

Well to just say it... I lost my virginity to a girl who already had a boyfriend... so in other words I was someones cheating tool and she asked me to be her boyfriend... when she already had one... so when I think about it later on today, I'm saying to myself how did I get in that whole mix up? It makes me angry, disappointed because I knew I could've gotten someone better, and damn it just makes me sad. How would you have taken it?

 

The same way...I actually had a similar thing happen to me...this chick that was into me, but had just "broken up" with her bf...after I realized I really liked her, she turned full circle and went back to her bf...and then after I found out, wanted to get "serious" with me, but I just let that one go. Chances are she may really like you and if you like her, maybe give it a try, but more than likely, she has commitment issues and who is to say she won't cheat again, but against you...remember, there are plenty of other fish in the sea...I know that sounds lame, but hopefully you feel me.

 

I know what you mean and yeah I wasn't exactly into her... I just wanted to stay friends, but it was kind of hard to get that across.

 

Don't worry - it's what you do with the rest of your life that counts.

 

T'aint the last time a girl will make a fool of you, my friend. That is reason 1,239 why it is good to be in a relationship first. Next, he'll come gunning for you. I betcha she did it to make him jealous. He'll be jealous all right! Next time, THINK. That little guy between your legs is not supposed to control your brain. It's the other way around. You sound as though you've got some morals, if you're worrying about a 'first time', virginity.' and such. You can prob give you a better cussing out than any of us - but, yeah, you screwed up!

 

Well thanks I know I screwed up but no worries... like you said I'm just going to think next time.

 

Hey Bitter
I'd just chalk it up to experience and move on. stuff like that happens. you are human after all. no worries, you'll meet plenty of ladies and get plenty of ass through the years. some experiences will be better than others. it's all part of life. enjoy it.

 

He is right you know. Don't worry about it, when it comes time to meet that special someone you will know.

Tiffany

 

I learned at a young age that there are only a few chicks that should be taken seriously within the scope of a relationship. Then there are those that you have meaningless sex with. The only way to separate the two is to find out who they are over time.

 

Yeah you're right... for now though I gotta think about studies, heh heh gotta graduate. After I get that done with then I'll go out and meet some ladies, but until then, studies will be my girlfriend, heh heh.