Do you try to look at the opposite sex's genitals through clothes?

Don't worry about it, if they are checking you out... You must have done something right to get their attention. I didn't pay attention to the guys in gym class, I was to busy making sure my feet stayed on the ground so I didn't make an ass of myself. Are you talking the short shorts like on Juno or just Nike shorts? I wouldn't worry to much about if a women sees you erect or not. It is just part of nature just like seeing a girls nipples hard.

Tiffany

 

what a shame it's going to waste!

 

I tend to feel the same way when I get them, XD.

 

lol, i bet you do!

 

After thinking about the replies here I've gotten more self-conscious about this, but in the opposite manner. I've been trying to adjust such that the erection bulge is visible but not obvious; depending on the pants, underwear, and whether I'm sitting or standing, up into the waist band is invisible, to the side is visible, and down the pant leg is obvious.

 

lol, i just had this wicked image in my mind of reaching out and snapping your elastic waistband. :reddevil:

 

No offense but I think that is stupid. You shouldn't feel self consious about weather or not you have an erection. It is perfectly normal to an erection. If you ask me I think you are overly worried about what a women thinks of your penis. Thats not all most women look for in a partner. Personality comes first. If your personality sucks then there is the problem.


Tiffany

 

Well as you said, people usually don't notice them. That's not because no one ever pays any attention, but because no one walks around with a full erection evident. It's taboo. Imagine that vaginas got like twice as wet as they do and you could tell when a girl felt horny by the huge dark spot on her crotch in anything short of jeans; surely you wouldn't enjoy walking around like that. I guess in such a world tight pants just wouldn't be popular with girls...

I'm not obsessing over this, don't worry, I've just been giving it thought after not really considering it since several years ago when it first became an issue.

Also if the waistband were pulled back the dick would probably fall over, so it wouldn't be there to be snapped upon. But I still winced when I read it. O_O

 

Strangely, but I too, cant control myself not to look at camel's toe if it's present...

 

Anyone else feel like sharing? I'll be honest and say that I'm more interested in the female input, but that's out of my hands now.

 

since i was about 13... i've been into looking "down there" on a guy. it's always turned me on when there's something to see

 

Wow, that really put it into prespective for me. I would feel uncomfortable as well. Sorry I am glad you put it into prespective.

Yeah, when she said the thing about the waistband I winced too. That would suck for a guy. I mean I wouldn't know, as I have never kicked a guy down there and never intend to. I just think that is something I wouldn't want to mess with. I can't imagine the pain that you get. This is random, but maybe someone can describe what it is like to be kicked there for a guy. For me being a girl. I have been kicked down there and it does hurt, being that there is bone. But I am not sure how badly it hurts a guy and have always wondered.


Tiffany

 

geez i wasn't talking about inflicting serious pain...just playin!

 

Don't worry I don't think you are a bad person. Just that comment sounded just ouch. LOL I'm just a weird one, if I know a person will get hurt. It is like I feel their pain. LOL


Tiffany

 

Getting hit on the penis isn't really that bad unless it's on the tip, and it is worse when it's erect. That's for minor damage though...imagining anything close to permanent damage makes me start to feel sick.

The balls, on the other hand, have an entirely unique pain. Any pain caused to the testicles causes a feeling kind of like a stomach cramp, except concentrated into two small, intense points. With sufficient damage you really do get nauseous; I don't think it's that uncommon to throw up after getting hit really hard in the nuts, though thankfully I wouldn't know.

I think all guys have a very intense empathy for each other with respect to having our balls hurt. When I see a guy get hit in the nuts I faintly but distinctly feel the pain myself, including a very slight bit of the nausea sometimes. And during that time I'm infinitely sympathetic with the unfortunate dude. Unless I absolutely hated a guy I'd never like to see him get hit hard in the testicles, both because I wouldn't wish it on anyone and it'd be unpleasant for me.

 

Umm, I am not a guy. But I don't know I know how bad it hurt me. I know how bad cramps are, ugg I hate cramps. Can't even have caffine when I have that time. Thank you for explaining. I have always wondered about that. Why does it hurt so much more to be kicked in the nuts then to be kicked in the penis? I can understand why it would hurt if it was erect, being that the blood flows to the penis at that time. Wait how old are you? I mean can't seem to tell. Sometimes I think early 20s sometimes late 20s. Anyways thank you. My sister used to kick my ex in the penis. I was like he is never gonna want to date me if she keeps doing that. Oh well, its good that he is an ex but thats a different story.


Tiffany

 

Who could have thought that such toppic would last for 4+ pages... Amazing...

 

There are other topics in this topic. So yeah haha


Tiffany