(god, i cant COUNT how many times thats happened to me...lol) ...when u carry something of theirs or something that reminds u of them around with u at all times so u feel as if u have a part of them with u at all times (no! i dont carry my boyfriends lighter around with me!!! ESPECIALLY not in my bra...)
when nothing else matters. when i was in love i always told him that i would sooner spend my life in perpetual agony and excruciating pain than without him. now i know that they are one in the same. being without him...but i will always love him. i guess thats when you know youre in love. when you know youll feel the same way about them no matter what happens between you.
you know ur in love when they look at you and you just melt inside, like they can see everything in you, all the good and all the bad, but look at you with love non the less. *sigh*
Ya love her enough, to let her go. And hurt for the rest of your life because of it. Knowing she'll be happier.
. i guess thats when you know youre in love. when you know youll feel the same way about them no matter what happens between you.[/QUOTE]i SOOOO agree...thats like my philosophy on love...that with real love u can never STOP loving them...it just physically doesnt happen...all this "i dont love u any more" shit...if thats the case then u didnt love them to begin with either, cus if u really love someone it will never go away...what i DO believe though is that the love u have for someone can change, become friendship love, or a lesser form. i believe that u can love more then one person. if u love someone and get a divorce i believe that ull always have somewhere in your heart love for them, even if u remarry, and ull love ur new partner too, cus i believe that love is like that... so yes...u no ur in love when even if u arnt together anymore, there is still love twards them in ur heart
you know your in love when nomatter how bad every other aspect of your life is you are as happy as you can possibly be because you have that person's love and thats all you could ever want or need
when it doest matter if u have sex or not cus all u really would b happy with is a simple hug or smile...
yay, i got called cute! but yea, i went for about a year some not being able to sleep without talking to her and telling her i loved her, and now that she dumped my ass i have trouble sleeping at night, lol. now if you'll excuse me i'll go listen to "nice guys finish last"
i SOOOO agree...thats like my philosophy on love...that with real love u can never STOP loving them...it just physically doesnt happen...all this "i dont love u any more" shit...if thats the case then u didnt love them to begin with either, cus if u really love someone it will never go away...what i DO believe though is that the love u have for someone can change, become friendship love, or a lesser form. i believe that u can love more then one person. if u love someone and get a divorce i believe that ull always have somewhere in your heart love for them, even if u remarry, and ull love ur new partner too, cus i believe that love is like that... so yes...u no ur in love when even if u arnt together anymore, there is still love twards them in ur heart[/QUOTE] yes....i was in love once. although we are no longer IN love, i will always love him just the same, if that even made any sense.
WOW all of your real romanitc, not to sound crude but..... um if you are comfortable enough to fart when they are aroud you are in love hahaha. Honestly when you are that comfortable you are in love ,you people are saying all this sweet stuff and its nice and that may mean you are in love, but that can be confused with lust (trust me). And if you get nervous about where they are all the time and call none stop in fear something is wrong that is love, (and annoying) but that means you are devoted.
im so sorry...thats sad i hope u find the right person who will appreciate the love u have to give...
yes....i was in love once. although we are no longer IN love, i will always love him just the same, if that even made any sense.[/QUOTE] dont worry, that makes sense
This is a really cool and sweet thread! Wonderful! This really made me sad, though: About 3 years ago, I met the perfect woman. She was so very different than what I had in mind, that I didn't move fast enough, and I lost her for good. For over a year, I cried more over her than I care to admit, but I know that I've got to let her go, and let us both get on with our lives. I now have a GF who is very sweet, and a wonderful woman, and I'm very happy with her, but I still get sad sometimes, when I remember this other woman. What this all has taught me is: you can love more than one person (although you can't be with more than one), that sometimes pain comes as part of the joy, and that no matter how complicated and confusing it gets, love is still worth while!
aw...im so sorry, thats such as sad story i feel for u, i do. theres somthing about a guy crying over u thats so cute, and yet so sad...but im glad u moved on u know ur in love when ur a really macho "guys should never cry" type of guy , and the girl u love makes u cry ....