Loneliness/why Dont I Have Anyone

I feel so lousy and bummed right now..I want to say that truly..I dont have any friends..at all..I know what your thinking..how can that be?..Doesn't everyone have friends?.. no..they don't..I'm one of them.. It gets so god-damned lonely..man.. I do have 2 "online friends"..But I dont consider them personal friends cause I dont see them when I need to in real life...

And people tell me..oh you're so groovy and cool..
So why in the hell don't I have any friends?..what is it about me?..

This sucks..sucks..sucks..and the biggest drag of all..I just want 2 friends in real life..is that so much to ask for?..Someone to tell things to, and go places with so I dont have to alone..as usual..

Now I'm beginning to even mull if there is a god or not..Why would a god,a creator, do this to me,and other good people like me?..

I just dont know,about anything anymire..I'm contemplating killing myself to go back to the 60s..where I am wanted..

This is a drag..

 

Hey c'mon, stop feelin sorry for yourself. There are opposites to everything, when you're popular you wish you never had so many friends to think of and be diplomatic because you're always gonna piss off someone. Explore, do what you fancy, paint, carve, help poor kids, and i promise on everything i'm worth that you will have more friends than you bargained for. Good people attract good friends.

If you give off a bad, i don't have any friends will you be mine? kind of aura, people will think that you want something of them, as opposed to you being the awesome person you are having something to offer!

And no matter what, keep ya chin up. That is, if it wasn't blown off by zee Germans.

 

"SNATCH" as many friends as you can, if there user's write um off! and
move on!, join community clubs, start surfing if geo-realistic. I've done this,
I got a job on the side, it was a music store, cause I like music very much,
I figured anyone I met and began somewhat of a friendship with, we'd already
have something in common, then hit some concerts, whatever, it's hard
for me to comprehend not having, or, being able to meet and start a friend
ship, you are leaving your house some of the time arn't you? Good luck!
Icurus ~

 

i dont have many friends either, but the ones i do have are awesome, and i try to make new ones a lot so. dont feel bad, youll always find new friends!

 

hey i understand i dont have many either. i've went to a few different schools the past two years and lost contact with everyone and i'm shy. i have a b/f and he and i spend alot of time together but that makes me depressed because i dont do the things that "normal" kids in the u.s. do. i.e, homecoming and the like. but im not going to whine b/c i spose if i wanted to be cool and normal then i would be or would have made the effort to fit in. i am a loner and i've grown into it. i spose you have done the same that is why you have alienated yourself from the rest of the community you live in. that is what i did. i think a cool place i've met people is at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting, although i'm not really an alcoholic, i guess i am like edward norton's character in Fight Club, i am a tourist at those types of places, they attract me because people there are all about sharing how they feel and sometimes they aren't just waiting for their turn to speak. thats a good way to find a friend, to share how you really feel about something. good way to see the persons for who they really are inside. if you want to chat p.m me

 

Nobody out there..fits my liking,y'all..
You know..sometimes I really dont care..and sometimes..it really is annoying..
I've come to terms..with this: "life is easier with few friends.." saying..
and anyway..I do play the blues..so this lonesomeness gets me playin' harder..
I cant actually stand popular people..anyone that is popular.is entirely obnoxious to me.. and also,it gets to me when people that are popular go shleppin' around callin' themselves loners.. how ignorant of them.. they've never experienced what it's like to be alone.. truly,I mean..

 

..for YOUR information I do not feel sorry for myself..sometimes I do..But mostly I have accepted my loner status for the moment..I also dont go around saying 'feel bad for me,feel bad for me',begging everyone for mercy,untill a word is spake from their tongues utter..

 

ok here is my advice...

first, in your mind you need to make yourself the most important person in the room...you can do no wrong and sorta make yourself into a celebrity.

second, you need to go up to who ever you want to and talk to them...they should be honored to be talking to someone with the likes of you...

third, ask if they want to do something by the end of it sometime.

 

i have the same feelings and everyone tells me they feel the same way. society is fucked up, with these "clicks" of people n shit. i hate classes of people and "types" of people. i hate myself and im jus pissed of and venting!~

 

I hope you weren't referring to me when you said "it gets to me when people that are popular go shleppin' around callin' themselves loners. " because i have experienced what it's like...

 

Once again I have to be the jerk and call things how I see them. If you don't have any friends get off your ass and go meet people, sitting behind your computer crying about not having any friends is pretty lame. No one is going to come knocking on your door and say " can I be your friend" Go outside and meet people.

 

aww,thanks.. glad someone appreciates the likes of me..

 

i can completely relate. i think everyone needs someone that truly understands them. and i have yet to find that special someone!! but the things you want always come when you least expect them (which is soooo true) so if youre always expecting or wishing you had somebody, it probably wont happen, and if it does you will probably attract someone you dont click with because youre not in the right mood. dont you notice how you meet the coolest people when youre in the mood to meet people? but yea i know exactly what you mean and im going through the same thing, and once i get my licence im out of this godforsaken city. im sick of entertaining people--its time to entertain myself and stay entertained with life!!im going to ask for a peaceful life by picking a peaceful dellusion!!! until i find someone to share it with me.ahhhhh...

 

Dear Mr.Social Butterfly,
I actually aint sitting round,here,I'm standing..

I aint crying about not having friends...umm.. I --dont recall--but--. nah!..--
but maybe---.. did ?-- did you--? did you just hear this thread wailing--?..
oh..alright then..Well. Maybe you should go to the clinic and get some antidote for your skitzophrenia..

untill you walked one mile in my shoes..then one more mile further,can you yap your ominous , useless remarks...to me..which by the way,mean nothing,nor do I care of..

by the way--

Are you me?..
Because I aint recalling no instance of your soul entering my mind..or body..
therefore, it is yet again..ignorant (as many are) and rude (many are..),
for you to assume you know how I control my life..or how to..

how do you possibly know,for me, not you...that someone aint gonna come to my door therefore resulting in meeting them there?
I aint some hermit man..like you must be..
I am a blues musician..
A musican..right! do you know what that means?..


It means I leave my house,go to places and play my blues guitar..

I play music,you know..blues..Do--you know what music is?..

Thank you for your conseltation,
Mr.Social Butterfly.


I think I'll do fine without you..
and your things,like you see them...


--Signed

N.H.J. (S.juanera)

 

Right on man! peace of mind!..
but yea..I agree with you,agreeing wit h me..
and although,I dont want to get a car..cause I am against all the pollution and everything.I am getting a motorcycle..and then I'll be gone..
at least the pollution is less..still there,but cars are more bigger and everything..
but thanks for agreeing with me man..
and right on..to peace of mind..

may it find us man..


--Signed,
N.H.J. (S.juanera)

 

eliminate your want of friends, and perhaps you wont feel lonely. maybe this works, or not. sometimes i think this is my only choice...

 

and you wonder why you are lonley, gee could it have something to do with the fact that you are scarcastic little winer, grow up and get a life