Girls, when did you first realise you were bi-sexual?

I've noticed that heaps of girls on this site are bi-sexual, and I'm just curious about how/when you first realised you liked girls as well as guys. First time 'she came onto me' stories are welcome too.

On a side note, I'm currently watching The L Word, it's awesome.

 

i have known as far back as i can remember that there was something that i liked about both sexes..

my first experience was with a female cousin.. i was 13 she was 17..

 

I relaised when I was 14. Had my first experience with another woman a few years later.

 

I think i was 15,i had known before that but never acted on it.A friend and i were just fooling around in my bedroom when i playfully grabbed her breast.She said it felt good.We looked each other in the eye and we both knew that we were thinking the same thing.Found out later she had some expierence and had planned this. i luv both sexes.

 

I was about 7? I never thought that there was something wrong with it.

 

I was 12 years old and it was during a sleep over with my friend.

 

Not until I was 19, but I had and still have spent more of my time around women which I'm sure plays a part. I don't like labels but I believe everyone is on that scale of between 1-10 as I call it, which can change as you go through life. Right now I would love to meet a guy and get married. Being with a woman doesn't appeal to me at all right now.

 

I don't really know when it was that I KNEW. I have always watched girls and hen I was in middle school and all I thought it was a jealousy thing ya know? one of those I wish I was like her things...but ended up that's not what it was. My first time was with one of my best friends when I was 17. She had been out of the closet for a while so she was experianced. After that I knew I wasn't the definition of societies "normal". There's been one girl who I still hold in my heart. I was with her at the beginning of this year and it was such a short but wonderful time.
I am married and my husband is not into seeing me with other girls. He says he cares about me too much to see me being with someone when he knows that I care about women emotionally, not just physically. So it sucks because I still feel like somehting is missing. I still look at girls and I can't and won't stop. I am happy with him but I miss the touch of a woman...anyone feel me? (No pun intended. lol)

 

i was 16. id had thoughts and feelings about other girls through puberty and it never seemed abnormal to me but i didnt give it much consideration. anyway at 16 i ended up with a big crush on a gay friend, ended up in a relationship with her that lasted a few months and it was towards the end of that i kind of started thinking of myself as definitely bi as opposed to just experimenting.

 

I'm not sure. I've always said I was bi curious, but there there are times I think about it and feel that I am straight, and then I'll have the thoughts about expirimenting. I noticed I was attracted to other girls when I was about 13 I'd say... I'd kissed a girl.. but nothing more then a quick peck on the lips... I don't know anyone I would try things with, and I'm too shy to try.

 

Ya for me it was early childhood, I noticed women long before men. My best friend in 2nd grade and I experimented a little in one of those little plastic log cabin houses once. I remember just feeling very attracted to them first. But now there's definitely an equal attraction to both sexes...

 

hmm id say around 12 or 13. My friend let me play with her breast and one day we just ended up kissing. Thats when i saw that i liked girls too.

 

I use to think I was bi, but I don't think I am, now.
I think girls are hot, and often get turned on by them, but I don't want to touch them or have sex with them. Lol.
Kissing and stuff, sure.
I dunno, maybe I'm weird. ;D

 

Naw, I have a friend kinda like that. She's let a girl preform oral sex on her, and kissed a girl, but won't give oral and stuff.

I'm not sure what I would do or if I would do anything if it came down to it. kissing yea, but I'm just not sure about the rest.... I guess you never know until the time comes.

 

Lol I have a terrible story First time I ever went camping, me and my best friend (both of which we were 13) were all snuggled up. It was pouring outside and we had our own tent. She knew that she was bi, we were both rather beyond our years. At that point I had never had a sexual experience with females nor males. While we cuddled up we managed to sort of put our legs together, and after a while we started lightly grinding, then kissing and then fingering. I felt awkward in the morning.

 

actuly i was younger like 14 didnt know then , but then found out like around june of this year though reacons i got and how i reacted to things . i am still expermintal

 

I guess I was 19 when I was finally ready to embrace it, even though I'd been suspecting something was up all along.
I use bi as a technical label, but I'm not really fond of labels in general. I could really go for anyone if the feeling was right. Women, the odd male, trans, hermaphrodites. Whatever. So I guess that makes me pansexual. :cheers2:

 

i always just felt.. different. i just didn't figure out what to call it until puberty. my first experience with another girl was with my cousin when we were about 7.. there were a couple of others, but my first 'real' experience with another woman didn't happen until i was 19.

i'd say that for me the attraction is 50/50 men to women.. but with women, its pretty much just sexual. i have a really hard time seeing myself dating a woman.. but stranger things have happened.

 

see me i have always looked at chicks,but just never got around to do anything more than make out and shower untill i was 16. now im ingaged and about to be married to the girl of my dreams it all depends on what you truly feel. Dont let lables bother you what so ever

 

girls in my opinion, are more attractive than men in general. but i do enjoy having sex with my man very much. Girls are just easier to look at, more beautiful, but i don't think i would ever have a serious relationship with a chick, just do naughty stuff with her... haha