yeah, i completely agree with you. what i really hate is that our society instills in us when we're young to be ashamed of what we are - sexual beings - and too many of us (the collective us) are conformists and go along with what society wants us to be. I happen to really enjoy rebelling against society and just embrace who i am (and if that happens to be a really horny girl, so be it) people need to lighten up a little
It's certainly not as common, but it does happen. She was someone I had arranged to meet from the old CB days of the early '80s. Although still a virgin I was a pretty typical guy of my age & was all talk, and we would frequently have quite racy chats on air. One of the common topics, as it happened, was the same as this thread, that it is wrong that a woman who enjoys frequent sex should be considered a slut, while a man who does the same be considered a stud. Anyway, one day she said she wanted to meet me so she could molest me, and so as not to lose face I agreed to a meet, not believing for one second she would be serious. I was surprised enough that she actually arrived, but then when we got back to my digs she locked the door & removed the key. Then she started to work on me with passionate kissing - even that was something new to me. Then she started to unbutton my shirt, at which point I started to get scared - I was out of my depth. I tried to do the buttons up, but she could unfasten them faster than I could do them back up. Before long she had removed my shirt altogether & had begun on my pants, which followed the same pattern. She seemed to be far more experienced in taking men's clothes off than I was at putting them back on. Next thing I knew I was stark naked, which wasn't a problem to me in itself, being a naturist, but the control thing was quite another matter. My heart was pounding as adrenalin & testosterone pumped through my system. Suddenly she pulled me beside her onto the bed, and needless to say I had by now developed a full erection, despite my efforts to escape. Then she slipped her panties off & for the first time ever I was faced with the sight of a fully aroused vagina. Although I had seen my mother's vagina many times it had obviously never been in such a state. At this stage my basic animal instincts took over, and rather than trying in vain to escape I suddenly became driven to mate. To this day I can remember more my state of mind than anything else. The main question I had, which with hindsight seems comical, was how I would find the right path - after all, there has to be one to the womb and another to the bladder? With absolutely no finesse - no foreplay or anything, I got into position between her legs, placed my penis against her vagina & pushed, resulting in even more thoughts that remain clear to this day. Firstly, being amazed at how easily it found its way in - almost as if I was being sucked in - secondly, the total elation that I was no longer a virgin. Then, thinking that the masturbation I had previously been so used to was no more than a simulation of sex I began pounding away at the same sort of rate. Needless to say I soon found my logic to be at fault when she screamed at me to take it easy. I immediately held back & followed her own movements, making my thrusts as long and as slow as possible. After a while I started to feel the pangs of impending orgasm, which surprised me that I could reach that stage with such a slow movement. My immediate reaction was to tighten the muscles in an attempt to make it last just that little bit longer, but once again, as experience has taught me, this was exactly the opposite thing of what I should have done, for this instinctive tightening set the climax off - I now know I should have concentrated on relaxing the muscles instead. After having climaxed I desperately tried to keep going in the vain hope that I could either stay erect, or achieve another erection in order to repeat the experience, but it was not to be. I lost my erection & slipped out, at which point I confessed to her that I was not the experienced stud I had previously made myself out to be with the words "Well, there goes my virginity". It may have been a frightening way to lose my virginity, but it has also been greatly advantageous to me as, in reality, I tend to be extremely shy with people & had she not made the first move in such a way it wouldn't surprise me if I remained a virgin to this day, but having been through the experience once I then had more of an idea about what to expect in the future & what was expected of me - something which I have since made great use of. I know that many may even believe this to be the result of some fantasy, and I have, indeed, relived the memory of it as a fantasy for many of my masturbation sessions ever since, but whether you believe it or not, that's how it happened. None of the fancy frills that seem to festoon the accounts of others' first time experiences. I was scared to death, and eventually simply followed my natural breeding instincts.
I have a boyfriend who pleases me to the fullest and I still masturbate when he is not around...it's addictive but it's nice to be able to just have that "you" time sexually.
Yeah, that's fine and dandy for everyone else, while I'm stuck in my generation, where masturbation is sent immediately to all levels of 'disgusting' I swear, can't talk to any girls about it. Well, I did relate well to one of my friends (girl) about it, but not on a strong level. Girls need to be more open.
all women are different, some have higher sex drives than others. my girlfriend needs sex twice a day and she also masturbates at least once day.
my girl is just as horny as me and its great..we get along so great and the sex is amazing and she is just as open as me when it comes to trying new things...
I think that I am horny all the damn time... even one little touch or a glance at work from him sets me into a frenzy....
I love masturbating, too. Sometimes I will do it multiple times a day. Other times I won't for a few days or a week or something. But I just love it! It feels so good, and if I'm ever bored, it's fun. I definitely think that I'm at least as horny as any guy. I would be surprised to find one who is more horny haha
I think girls who admit that they masturbate are really cool Its not something that we should be ashamed of! Be proud of who you are!!