hello. i am, i feel, in a crossroad in my life. several paths are before me and i need guidance to make the best choice possible. so to all of you, with extra habilities or just comum sence please help me find my way. i can stay and fight for her. i can go away now, alone, and if so here or there? i know this is all to vague but it is my way. so please help me, for i am very tired
No matter where you go, there you are. Might want to take a break, if you have to fight distance reveals true connections. Either the connection will sever or grow stronger and that is up to your souls if you're true.
thank you for your words. i truly feel, have felt for many years, she is my soul mate, our connection goes behond the normal patterns. sometimes i can feel her even if shes far away. and u are correct. having to fight as surtenly taken its toal and i grow extremely tired. even so theres nothing my heart wishes more then to share life with my soul mate. so do i move on and hope for a, unlikely happy reunion, or stay and risk meltdown. the dificulty for me is that i was never the guy to quit, i havent for so many years, and i am scared to sence that my heart is wanting rest, wanting peace
I havn't seen my soul mate in years and we are still completely in love. We'll be together again, we know that. Until then . . There's so much work to do.
I've had many soulmates through the years. Some I simply see on the street walking by and we look at each other and the connection is made and then we never see each other again. I'm with a soulmate now. In my experience the nature of relationship is to ebb and flow. Sometimes those movements take us away for a time. But if your heart is leading toward peace and it's not in your current situation the tension will only grow. I think it's important to also realize that you can't make the wrong decision. Each path will bring you different circumstances and different people but there's never an end to the possibility of connecting with love or with a positive life. Regardless of what you choose you will always have the ability and opportunity to find what it is that your soul desires.
Thank you jrnyman for your wisdom, and healing energy. So often individuals bind with attachment the need to be with some one instead of opening to the journey of discovering the wholeness of what love really means. As we seek the best growth for all, sometimes we must let go as the soul learns to fly solo. In this place of wonder, and trust we know the connections when they do happen, are real, and not created because we fear being without. When we can truly say I want wholeness above all else, we find that love shines with a depth we never imagined, no matter where we are on the path, and journey we are on, or who we are with. We are all soul mates in this place as our breath becomes the intimate awareness of our own desire to stretch, and grow. Loving you is is loving me, and loving me was always loving you.
you're most welcome. it was a lesson hard learned. I very much carried the thought of "the one" and had that kind of cataclysmic soul connection with somebody when I was about 19 and then it ended and it hurt so bad I thought I was going insane. But then after years of being with different people I discovered that there can be connection like that again. And each love that I have while not being the same is so amazingly wonderful that the loss of the one before simply flows into the gain of the one now. And in a lot of ways has helped me come to a lot of conclusions on love that just don't make sense in the prescribed world. Like you can only hold one person in your heart... lol right. Once I allowed myself to love as my heart willed my life flowed in a way that has been just a true gift. In my own way I still love every person I've ever loved. And that is a process that adds to my current loves. Love is a limitless entity. Giving it and feeling it simply multiplies it. On my good days I remember that. And when I go into a relationship I ask myself first if I can let go of that person. If I can't then it's not fair to me or the other person. It's a dance, sometimes the steps get mixed up... but they right in the end.
