1) i'm not sure if this is the right board for my question, but i figured other women could help me the most. 2) i'm young and incredibly naive (especially so for my age), so i am sorry if this is a silly question. but i don't really know how to masturbate. I'd never really done anything sexual before I met my boyfriend. However, he just moved across the country. We were together for 6 months, and were physical all of the time (everything but sex.) Anyways, I want to continue exploring myself, but any time i try I just feel awkward, like I'm doing something wrong. so, is there any way you got started? or do you have any advice/tips? I'm really open to anything at this point. thank you so much
I'm not really sure how you can get over the feeling like you are doing something wrong feeling. But I generally like to masturbate with water. What I do is I turn the faucet on warm water. Then I position myself so my clit is directly underneath the water and well just hold myself there till my body starts to feel... Amazing. I hope this helps.
there's nothing wrong with it. akwardness is normal when you haven't really been doing something. especially if you're living with your parents. good lord. that's rough. just try to make yourself comfortable. that's all i can tell you. locked doors, music, blankets, whatever you need to get yourself past the wierd feelings. it's okay.
i have several different brands. i know of a company that i trust that you can order from online if you have a check card. pm me if you want their address. it's hard to find companies you're comfortable with. you are also old enough to get your own PO box if you're worried about your parents going through your stuff. thankfully i was just able to tell my mom "don't open the plain brown package. just put it in my room and back away slowly."
does urs go thru lots of batteries too? i feel like im always puttin new batteries in mine it drives me crazy! but its totally worth it so w/e...
rechargeable batteries people... waste less, less expensive... i second the toy motion. also, have a little lube on hand. however, id start off with just yoru hand, figure out where feels good to touch (clit, if you like your lips played with, etc), explore that way. more tactile, youll havea better sense of your hot spots and then you can play to them more with a toy
my mother is insanely strict, i couldn't even think about it if she were in the house. and i'm not sure if i am ready for toys/how i would get them home/hidden. i'm just really nervous.
get naked in bed, turn on some porn if you want to get the mood right, take your finger back and forth across your clit while laying on your back or stomach *whichever you prefer* and think of whatever gets you aroused..Go fast or slow..whatever you like until you cum *just saying*
the rabbit hurts me. maybe it's just the way my body is situated, but the ears don't tickle me, the bunny nose just pokes into me in a quite unpleasant way. it's just awkward. give me a vibrating dildo, and a small vibrator (preferably covered with some gelly like material) for my clit, and i'm good! or better yet, a hot chick with a strap on. oh wait, we were talking masturbation.... well, you all know my masturbation fantasy now!
