K, I know this has already come up a thousand times, but I really want answers specifically directed towards me. Now, there's no doubt as to whether I like guys. Always have, always will. But I have found myself increasingly interested in girls. About a year ago a made out with a close friend of mine. I was extremely aroused, way more than I thought I'd be, and it left me kinda confused. We didn't go any farther than kissing, but I found myself really wishing we had. Before then, and even more since, I find myself looking at women in a totally different way. I'll see girls and become more turned on by looking at them than I do when looking at men. I don't know if this is a curiosity phase that a lot of girls my age (19) go through that I should just wait out, or if my true sexual preferences are peeking out the more I explore. Any insight on this subject?
I would go with what feels right. Explore your feelings more to see if they stay strong like this, or if it was just the "novelty" of the taboo that made you so aroused.
Experiment and see how it goes, - it might be that is a phase or you might be bi or gay. - I wouldn't advise coming out before you are sure.
