Sex in your relationship.

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Christoph__, Aug 10, 2008.

  1. Frozen Solid

    Frozen Solid Member

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    I think I am in love with Sashak.
     
  2. GigglySunshine

    GigglySunshine Member

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    What??!!! Do you even know her??!!!
     
  3. SweetSouthernC

    SweetSouthernC Guest

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    Me and my boyfriend have sex every chance we get. It just depends on the girl and how much she wants it I guess.
     
  4. Frozen Solid

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    What else do I need to know? She is absolutely gorgeous and she wants to have sex at least once a day! Sign me up!
     
  5. sophieclair

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    I am a virgin, but once I start having sex. I know I am gonna want it daily. I don't know if she wants to make it for special occasions, I would have her dress up in things for special occasions. But I would want sex daily for sure. I would be alittle put off by her feeling like she has to do it for you. That isn't fair to you, if you are with someone, sex is something you should want to do not be forced into. Atleast in my opinion.

    Tiffany
     
  6. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Sex can be complicated, my fiancee and I have been having issues lately with him not being there for me emotionally. It makes me not want to be there for him physically.
     
  7. jrnyman

    jrnyman kermit

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    It could just be a compatibility issue. I know from experience that some people just don't vibe sexually together. And if it is an inherent sex desire issue from both of you and it really is a big deal I'd suggest moving on. You can piss away years living in total frustration (usually both being frustrated) because you're in love or want to be nice.

    And yeah sex is something that you should both totally want to do. In my experience it's usually the easiest part of a relationship. If it goes bad then it's a symptom of something bigger. Not always, but often.
     
  8. new-guy

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    try finding differnet was to do it make it more exciting and what not
    is it that she doesnt get enough pleasure out of it (no offense ment)
    talk about it and find ur views
    also masterbation is ur friend lol
    just dont find out in a few years that u made the biggest mistake
     
  9. guiltofzeus

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    tie her up. go down on her. make her cum (at LEAST once). untie her. spoon.
    don't suggest that you have sex, not verbally, not by body language... just leave the thought alone.
    She may want to have sex with you, if it's her suggestion, you may. OR you could make her wait. Whichever you think will work.

    Spice things up, maybe she's bored... Try new things...

    Sometimes guys tend to just jump into sex without any prep, clearly selfish. Maybe if you do something just for HER, she'll start to enjoy it more... and in turn, she'll start doing things for you, and she'll even enjoy it... :D

    If that doesn't work out for you - Tell her that you feel like she doesn't want to have sex as much as you do, and that you feel like you're pressuring her. If she doesn't deny it or have something to say or do that fixes everything, tell her that sex is her call from now on. and STOP asking for it... If you're horny and need to get off, jack off. She will probably be wanting it after a little while..
     
  10. secret_agent_amanda

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    I have sex with my husband whenever he wants to. Sometimes I get off, and sometimes I don't. It doesn't cost me anything to do it, and I like being close to him. Sometimes when I really don't want to, I'll just give him a blow job. I know that sounds sooooooo bad. lol. But I wouldn't do it if not fucking him would be a problem for him. He's a perfect gentleman when it comes to that. If I say no, that's the end of it and he just holds me.

    The point is, Maybe you're being to forceful about it? I know it's a really big turn off for me if I'm being pestered for sex.
     

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