i hve posted in here about my REALLY dysfunctional family.. how do i cut tyes with my family without feeling guilty and without making it seem like its my fault because they blame me all the time . i have a very hard time accepting that i have done absolutely nothing to them and they treat me like shit. Has anyone else gone thru this
Just dont talk to them ....and never talk about them...I have limited experience with this..but just following those 2 things has helped me distance myself from a few family members without losing the ones who matter...in time the undesirables drift away
I don't really have any experience with this in terms of family but I have def had friends that were not good for me in the same way. I think you really need to keep telling yourself that you are doing the right thing and somehow find people who will support you in distancing yourself from your family. Be strong and you can accomplish what you want to.
NO i never had parents to keep me in check like you but get out there on your own i mean like far away and do your own stuff someplace and your visit back to your parents will be more enjoyable you feel?
