There's this girl

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Moon_Unit, Aug 20, 2008.

  1. Moon_Unit

    Moon_Unit Member

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    Well i met this girl about 2 months ago and recently one of her close friends told me she likes me. I can tell there is interest but heres my problem. I havent had a girlfriend before and i dont know how to go about doing stuff with her and asking her out. I usually see her every weekend at the gatherings i go to so there are plenty of opportunities. Its pretty embarrasing to admit but i dont know what to do.

    can anyone give me some advice cause i really need it.
     
  2. Vlawrrr

    Vlawrrr Member

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    Go for it, maybe take your time, slowly work into a relationship with her, if you need. I mean make sure she knows you like her too, and then see what happens there, then ask her out. Trust me, if it doesn't work out too well, now you have some experience, and I find you learn new things in every relationship.
     
  3. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    ask her out to a movie thats how i asked out my first gf and i got a handy during the movie as a bonus
     
  4. Moon_Unit

    Moon_Unit Member

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    thanks ill try it and see if i can snag her.....anyone else got anymore tips
     
  5. brack1936

    brack1936 Member Lifetime Supporter

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    don't ask for the handie
     
  6. DeepMotherFucker

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    Brother just go with how it feels...approach her...rejection doesn't hurt anything but ur feelings but why let it do that...i mean every one is beautiful in there own way...and if she doesn't see your beauty she ain't even worth your time man. But her friend said she was diggin on you so don't be nervous man just go to her start a convorsation maybe bring up your favoret band at one point...but try to say something flirty, cheesy, sweet, but all your own and it will catch her eye real quick. Now for as if things work out and you wanna know how to make things happen a lil furthur down the road, PM me man ill help u out...but repost how things go if u decide to do it man. Peace
     
  7. x GET SNUFFED x

    x GET SNUFFED x Member

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    What have you got to lose if she rejects you? Your world ain't over.
    I see it's tough if it's your first relationship ever but there's a first time for everything.
    Just go for it, see how it goes. I'm pretty sure she won't care if it's your first time dating.
     
  8. EXAchilles

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    Well you should make the date interesting, so if you want to really go over the top then make mental notes of all the things you can do around where you live.

    And from my experiences, dinner and a movie never holds a candle to something (more) original like taking surf lessons together, surfing out to an island or secluded beach and bringing a few sandwiches to enjoy the sunset with.

    Of course, if you don't live near the coast you could go on a walk through a park after coffee or lunch, and then head over to the arcade.

    Just do whatever, the important thing is to make sure that both of you have as much fun with each other as possible.
     

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