I'm only in the tenth grade but back in the sixth grade I met a guy who I really fell in love with. It seemed like just puppy love at the time, but I deeply cared for him. After a while, he kind of became disinterested and started to ignore me. In 8th grade, sometimes he'd be nice to me and ask to hang out but sometimes he'd be rude. A couple of times, he told me he was interested in me for sex but we never actually did it because he would change his mind. Recently, he was hit by a car and nearly killed, and I found out from his mom where he was and went to see him. We didn't talk much because he was pretty drugged up but I could tell he didn't really want me there. A few days ago, he apologized for how he treated me and I said it was okay. I think he really is a nice person and I still care about him but everyone tells me I should hate him. I don't know how I should feel?
You're 14, wait on sex. Chances are he's 14 too, and despite what you may hear whispered in the hallways, almost nobody else is doing it at your age. Furthermore, at 14, people aren't yet set into who they will become. 14 year olds are specters of their future selves, and i have serious trouble believing in love at 14, or grade 6 for that matter. If he wants to date you, date him if you like him, but don't expect it to last forever. You learn a lot from heartbreak.
Yeah, I've kinda just been going on with my life lately but every so often I get kind of sad. He's dating someone right now, actually so I'm going to back off. He's almost 16, but he's quite immature for his age.
Thankfully though you seem very grown up for your age. Keep that good head on your shoulders and you'll be fine.
My parents aren't sure that I have a good head on my shoulders and I'm more or less married lol. It doesn't change, it's what they should do, it's looking out for you.
