Just a question for the ladies. If you started seeing a guy and he mentioned that he was Bi/ Bi-curious, would you still be interested in him? Would you be put off or curious? would you fantasise about the possabilities? how would you handle it? I know that if it was the other way around, then most fellas would love the idea of a bi girlfriend- porno style.
Well bi-ness doesn't bother me. I mean granted in my experience it makes guys a little commitment phobic, but it's not a turn off, or a turn on for that matter, it just is.
it'd be something i would mentally file away for future reference if the relationship progressed. i wouldnt be thinking like "omgz!!!1! two-guy threesome here i come!", or worry he was gonna dump me for the first cute guy that came along, but it would be something i would be remembering and wondering what it may lead to, if anything, in the future.
i find it massive turn on. not because i want to jump into a threesome with him but just because its an appealing quality as it suggests (Whether rightly or wrongly) great open-mindedness, tolerance, experiemental and adventurous nature... Obviously it goes without saying that non-bi people can have these qualities too its also so much fun to be able to admire hot guys together...
Oohh what a thought... I'm bi myself, and I know what its like to yearn for same sex sex xD I'd be stoked Plus gay guys are a turn on for me... ^^ So I guess that'd be awesome for a threesome
Absolutely honestly itd be a bit of a concern for me if he was too "curious", as Im monogamous and Im not a man and a woman at the same time I wouldnt have a problem with him being bi if he wanted to settle down with me and would be satisfied with just me, which Im sure a lot of bisexual people are with their partners, but I would worry there was a part of his sexuality not being fulfilled Its difficult for me to say as honestly, all the bisexual people Ive met have been into multiple partners. Maybe when I meet a monogamous bi guy I can make better judgement of the dynamics At the end of it though, long as he wasnt expecting to sex up any blokes (or other women) while he was with me, itd be cool. People are who they are, and if the guy I loved happened to find men attractive aswell, its not a big deal
