tried to kill himself while i was on the phone with him. he OD's on his brothers proscription pain killers. i called his brother and he went over and rushed him to the hospital. He was ok, but he was sent to a rehab place. the first time i called him while he was there he started yelling at me, asking me why the hell i would have his brother come over and save him and saying shit like "i thought you loved me" and "if you loved me you woulda let me die" and all this shit. then, the rehab place decided he was recovering well, so he was alloud out for one afternoon, with people from the place, and he left. the fucking people that were supposed to be watching him stopped paying attention and he just fucking left. and now no one knows where the hell he is. and his brother is blaming me for the whole thing. saying that he never tried to kill himself before i came along. and saying i should have stayed the fuck away from him. but that doesnt even make sense! i never did anything to make him want to kill himself. we were friends for a while, and then we started dating, but we had never had any fights, or anything. and aparently its my fault hes probably dead. is it possible this is my fault?!?! ughgghghg idkkkkkkkk
Ah he feels it, too . . Maybe he's off in the woods where he belongs? Cat's come back for food. And if they don't, they either found a new home or got hit by a car. Don't blame yourself, there's no one to blame this world is just absolutely insane
he may not like it, but you did the right thing telling his brother. No need for second thoughts. I think he had some serious issues and its not your fault.
Don't take it personally that he yelled at you on the phone. Unfortunately, I've been hospitalized twice and I've done the same thing to people I care about. He just felt scared and alone. I hope he's OK, but everything he's done is his own fault. The best you can do is be there for him, but if he chooses to turn you away from him, he'll soon realize his mistake.
but is weird that he NEVER acted like he wanted to kill himself before i started dating him...? he was perfectly normal, i never saw it coming he wasnt depressed or on meds or anything like that..
That makes me think all the more that he was trying to get sympathy from you. He seemed to be reaching out to you by the initial act of trying to OD. When you brought his brother into it, it was something he didn't count on and in his confusion he got angry at you. He didn't want anyone else to know or help him and his family finding out about it probably makes him very embarrassed. He seems to want a lot of attention from you and he felt that the only way to do so was to put himself into a situation where only you could help him. That's what I gather from the situation- having quite a bit of experience in the area. :/ Good luck with everything.
Yes, needs attention...if he really wanted to kill himself he would have done something better than take pills and he would not have had you on the phone while doing it. These statements are games to get your sympathy. His brother probably knows exactly where he is and this sounds like an elaborate way to break up with you and make you feel guilty about it. You did nothing wrong.
if i had a girlfriend like you (or just a girlfriend for that matter) i would stop hateing myself so much...this dude is a weirdo
