Brain: Resume Normal Activity

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by PurpByThePound, Aug 9, 2008.

  1. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    Yeah so, if any of you recall that girl I had been talking about? I told her tonight that I liked her...and I was totally spun around...she thought "we were just really good friends"

    And you know, I'm not even angry. I'm disappointed, yes. I'm a little hurt, and I'm kind of lost.

    I was subconsciously setting myself up for this the whole time too. No way would I be able to keep up with these two other guys, right? Who am I kidding...

    Well...I still feel alone. Hell, I still am alone...I shouldn't be surprised but I am.

    I was her "favorite"
    She sits on my lap and flirts with me and makes sure she has my phone number and I have hers
    She sits up with me in the morning just talking
    She gets super excited knowing that she is going into MY car opposed to his
    She "thought about me A LOT"

    I just truly don't understand. Communication has, once again, destroyed my ego. This time, however, I was on the opposite end of the spectrum. I was a victim of mind games that weren't even intentionally played...

    I'm going to start smoking again...
     
  2. drew172

    drew172 Senior Member

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    Sorry to hear that man...

    I really wish I had some advice or good words for ya..

    All I can say is that you gotta be in a difficult place right now, but things will turn..

    Maybe you can suggest dating to her and see if she's into it? Tell her to give you a good chance and she might come around?
     
  3. PurpByThePound

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    I don't want to force anything about this relationship. I wouldn't want someone to do that to me...

    That is the exact opposite of how I feel, but I know it is the right thing...

    I just am prepared to be alone for a while longer...I guess I can wait on things
     
  4. PurpByThePound

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    One thing I just don't understand is why she acted like she liked me...did she not realize what she was doing?

    Even my cousin, who had been trying to make moves with her, has lately been telling me I should go for her because she obviously likes me.

    I'm feeling frustrated...
     
  5. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    I am so trivial...
     
  6. EMAT101

    EMAT101 Member

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    why dont you ask her about the mixed signals and let her know how your feeling or else you might loose her as a friend, but then again what the hell do i kno im just a stoner
     
  7. PurpByThePound

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    I'd like to...but, I'm thinking of just backing off...

    I'm going to let her decide what happens.
     
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