How can I focus on the task at hand? Pun intended!

I've heard that to have better orgasms, you need to focus on what's happening and not let your mind slip to something that upsets you or soemthing.

If it helps, during masturbation, I wind up thinking about how lonely I am or how I can't find a kind girl to love. Then I can't go on anymore...

Or if I do orgasm, it's weak and feels like nothing. It becomes nothing more than a simple dick rub that just leds to a little mess with no real pleasure. Just a warm feeling.

Any tips on how I can at least learn how to keep my focus?

 

Seriously, I do need some sort of advice...

 

Um, if you got some tantra books they may help. Red tantra though, not white. Just think about love, and happy thoughts. Even married men get themselves off, they aren't lonely.

But on the other side of that, even someone in the biggest croud can be lonely.

But you aren't lonely, you've got the people from the Hipforums, and most of the time this is a great place.

 

I'll give it a try!

I just find it weird that a person like me, who tries hard to look on the bright side of anything (If I'm sick, at least I'm not dead. If I die, no more pain, is an example) would allow something like being lonely get to them.
But something tells me that this is just a part of being human.

Thanks.

 

Oh it is. I get lonely too.