its not a gay thing, its an exploration thing. its definitely something you grow out of as you mature, though. Its a thing for teenagers to experiment. It needs to be someone you trust for sure, and that you know is a good friend. Idk i have done it, and its not gay. I guarantee that almost all of the people who say it is gay have not done it. So if and when you do it, youll see what i mean when i say its not gay. Now the whole touching another guys penis..thats a different story. Thats getting borderline gay.. ..unless ur drunk lol
Ummm, this is like telling a straight men he thinks anal sex with a man is only gay because he hasn't tried it. LOL Doing a circle jerk and the whole concept of a circle jerk is very homoerotic in more ways than one. I know in Europe friends sometimes masturbate together to some porn, at least that's what several indy films have told me...lol But seriously a circle with what I assume to be more than a few guys facing each other and apparently from the OP, no straight porn. That is the definition of homosexuality. I mean think about it, the OP is basically stating how a bunch of guys gather in a circle and pleasure themselves......how do they get horny? By looking at each other sweating? What? And the biggest question in all of this is how does the cumshots work? When a guy is ready to explode does he turn aside and shoot on the outside of the circle or towards the guy opposite him? No I'm sorry, this is gay, I've heard of female masturbation circles but from what I get they lie on their backs and pleasure each other while fantasizing about a man doing it to them. There is no male equivalent to that and frankly men are not as sensual as women so it's never the same.
That is the whole prob here, trying to DEFINE sexuality. It is only in our puritanical cultures that we try to put a label on things so we can call them bad. Other cultures especially those in ancient mediterranian countries just accepted that boys would play with other boys and girls with other girls. They didn't define it as homosexuality, they just accepted it as youthful play. Teen boys playing around with each other is not only natural and accepted for millenia, but it does not indicate any definition of ones eventual adult orientation. Boys tend to hang together so it is only natural that they would explore sexuality together. And, even adult men when put together in the absense of women are notorious for docking in any old port available.
never circle jerked but have done it with guys one at a time. why is everyone so worried about if its gay or not, most guys just do it, move on, get a gf and never look back.
Me and 3-5 friends used to jack together in a shed regularly. Fun as all hell! That was a LONG time ago, I'm 50 now.
I agree. I also jackoff with my cousin. I'm not gay and it does not make you gay to want to masturbate with another male. I get turned on when I know another guy is horny and hard, and I enjoy jacking off with my cousin, we have never stroked eachother, but we almost did one day, but we thought that might have been crossing the line, but maybe one day...I do not believe that it is gay, to want to masturbate with another guy.
I agree. It does not make you gay to do that but it could possibly lead up to you doing something with that you did not expect so be very careful if you do chose to continue to circle jerk. If you are able to keep it under control without crossing any lines, then you're mature enough to keep doing what you're doing. Your cousin, be especially careful with that. Keep in mind as to who that person is to you gender and familywise and who could be affected by it. Sometimes you can get so caught up in the moment of something that certain ways of thinking go flying out the window and when you are back to normal state, you can say "what the heck did I just do?" If you plan to continue to masturbate, be wise about what you do and how you do it.
Wow. This is an experience that I guess I missed out on in my adolescence. And for that I am eternally grateful.
I've jerked off with a buddy before. Even jerked eachother. It's no big deal. Even the gf likes it, so no harm done.
I went over to a buds house and we were watching some porn...we decided to jerk off so we got naked and sat on the couch next to eachother. He had some lube so we put a little on and started jerking off. I had never done it before and I think the thrill of being watched as I jerked off got to me. My bud asked if he could jerk me...I said yes and when he stroked me a few times I shot off hard. My head was very very sensitive when I was done shooting. I continued to jerk him off...although he was not at all a good size. Since then I've been looking for a young guy like myself that has a nice cock. Been thinking about trying oral. But to jerk off with a buddy would be nice again.