do u find that thaire are people u can never tell?

im bi and some times i think if i would just choose a "side" it would be easier to be excepted by people. also i have friends who wouldnt ever understand and wouldnt stay at my side if i told em. and my parents they would liek burn me alive. does any one else feel this way like u dont care what most people think and ur honest with your self but know that some people arre better off not knowing?

 

Yeah, in my life situation there are people who simply don't need to know. I understand how it's real important for some people to be very open and out about who they are. Basically I just can't see any reason to let a lot of people know who I want to sleep with. The folks who need to know, do know. The rest of the world could easy enough figure it out if they wanted to.

 

At first I was in the closet, but then I just got tired of keeping it a secret and came out. Most people I know do know, but there are some who would freak, most notably my dad and my best friend. My dad could take the news but it would take him awhile to come to terms with it, and my friend, well, he's quite religious. Never have trusted religion myself. I don't really understand how a good god can make seemingly good people do bad things. It's kinda like a bumper sticker I see every once and a while: "I love you, God. It's your followers that I hate." That's so true for me.

 

All of my close friends can never know. I don't want to risk 10year+ friendships. they would probably accept it but... I don't want to chance it.

 

my friends from jh got kinda an idea i wasnt compleetly str8 in like the 10th grade and we dont even notice eachother in the street any more and they didnt even know for sure so like i think it would be horrible if i just out right told my friends

 

I know my friends have no Idea about me. I have none of the stereotyped gay traits

 

My best friend is effeminate, even to the point that members of my extended family who have met him have thought he was gay. Even my mom believes that he's gay, but I don't, due to having known him much, much longer than my family has. However, I wouldn't be surprised if he was. I just hurts me to think that due to religion (and his very close minded family) he has to remain in the closet. If he is gay I just wish he would come out. He would be happier I believe and it would be much easier for me to tell him that i'm bi.

 

i dont think im that femanin i would say im pritty butch but im always in my head and poeple think thats weired and if its a guy and hes weired people asume hes gay

 

Dam right i mean i am coming out and have told my parents and that stuff but now they are just have the attude of shut up about it and we don't want to know - get back in the closet kinda thing.
I take the attude - I AM WHO I AM AND YOU CANT STOP IT - if i want to act bi and dress more gay then i will.