I only talk about this place with a couple of my friends. In our day and age, talking about the things I do on this form gives you a bad label. How fucked up is our society?
I don't think any of my friends know about this place, but not because I'm secretive, it just hasn't come up. My fiance sees me posting here, but I don't think he finds it all that interesting..
everyone that knows me knows about this place , I never thought about keeping it a secret....Im the same here as I am in real life...so they wouldnt be learning anything here they didnt already know.
my boyfriend gets jealous when i get on the computer so now he is telling me dont get on the computer or im gonna leave i gotta sneak on it when he is asleep or lie and tell him i gotta do something real quick
my friends aren't really computer nerds at all. neither are my family members. just me lol. I told my best friend about this site once when we were smoking, and she laughed at me for a little. I told her to join but I don't think she even remembers the link lol.
especially after hellvis... nah actually i feel the same way. i'd rather not have people i actually know posting on here. i wouldn't actually lie about it or anything like that, but i've never had a reason to bring it up, and when i had roommates i wasn't really coming here, so as far as i know nobody knows this place exists. i thought they already caught you once?
Yeah, my mom did once. Wasnt too happy. I've become a lot smarter since then. And more sneaky. And boy do you have a good memory !
I'm not secretive about it, but I usually find other things to talk about. I'm sure there are probably people I know on here, or who see me posting.
at first I was a little bit secretive about the forums. This would drive my best friend nuts that she didnt know what I was doing on the net. She always seemed to have the tendencies to do whatever I did and just start shit. She ended up snooping around with my emails and some of the people that i had sent emails to. How she ever figured out I was dustinthewind is beyond me. Totally pissed me the fuck off. anyways, my family knows that I post here as I talk to a member from here in real time. Kinda hard to explain why i am talking to him. Speaking of "him" I havent spoken to him in like a couple of weeks.......hope he is doing ok.
my Brother and mum knew...And I Had a few Friends who Joined... Just Glad my mum and Brother Didn't Join... That would be Quite Embarassing...But I am Not Secretive... My Husband is Always Trying to Read Stuff over my Shoulder...
Actually my Brother Did Join One Time... But he Got Bored after a few Days...That was Some Years Ago...
Haha...those goddamn pot smoking hippies and their peaceful ways always doing harm to others....I really wish they'd just see the error in their ways and stop doing whatever it is those dirty, guitar playing, singing, dancing hooligans do. On a more serious note....do you guys really have to hide this from parents and others? It's hard for me to imagine hiding anything I do from anyone, as everything I do somehow (even if just in the slightest bit) makes me who I am. This is like that all to common thread entitled "Do your parents know you smoke?".....How about this one, "Do your parents know you're an individual, living and breathing human being and treat you as though you are?" Hahaha....I haven't had a good laugh like that from the internet in a while man.......
Yes, I feel like I do have to hide things from my parents. I know what would they think and say. I know my parents very well and I know how to deal with them. You see, we communicate on a very basic level. I give em decent grades, good behaviour, and they give me freedom, without asking anything. So far...its been working perfectly
If that's what you consider to be "freedom" then rock the casbah! I guess I just don't look at the term freedom as loosely as you do. I'm assuming (damn...I've just come to the conclusion that perhaps I "assume" to much), that you are 19 like your profile thing says? You don't think you've experienced enough to know right from wrong and to make decisions on your own? Or do you just do those things they want from you in order to get something in return (ie money, a car, etc...)? Perhaps a different reason? I'm really interested in understanding why so many young adults still abide by many of the odd restricting norms parents place upon their kids, despite the fact that they are technically adults themselves. From my perspective right now, it appears as though most young adults comply simply because their parents hold leverage over them (back to the money, cars etc...).